Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend
I would agree with Pinter if it wasn't for the negging part. Negging is extremely dangerous to do because it has the potential to elicit a bad response from her. This is because what you take as a neg, she would take as an insult. No one likes insults.
Flirting is a far safer option. It's fun and everybody loves it. As for how you would figure out if she's single or not, just ask her! Guys and girls ask the question all the time, it's not weird if you ask her what her current relationship status is. After the question, if she asks why, you just flirt back with her. If you don't want to just pop the question, then flirting always work.
Don't take risks and chances when you don't have to. Don't neg. Do flirt.
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