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    bmth is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    Hey guys. I was looking for such a topic but I couldn't find one so I'm starting a new one. So here's a question:
    How to find out if she's single.

    I thought it would be proper to start with:
    me: "hey, my friend asked me where he could take his girlfriend on a date"
    and then ask: "so, where do you usually go on dates? You're a woman so, what do you prefer most?"

    Too obvious? Or enough "casual"?

    I know it's easy just to ask "Who's the lucky one?" or "single or not yet?" but I'm looking for casual ways to find out

    cheers

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    Honestly I really like the whoses the luck guy line, IMHO its the best line to say. If she say no one then you act surprised and say you don't believe her. If she say a name say you don't believe her still. Make sure to add hooks to it too.
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    You can also try to ignore whether or not she does, if your gaming her I'm sure once attraction sets in she'll divulge the information willingly, some may disagree, but many women don't make this obvious for various reasons I feel if you've been around her and she senses some type of attraction to and from you, then you would know already.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    Generally, I assume they don't or they will make it known. If you want to know though you can always just assume she has one and after you open say something like, "where's your boyfriend? I wanna meet the guy that hangs with you 24/7." or, "My god, you are a handful. Where's your boyfriend, I bet he needs a drink."

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    That's a nice question to ask her. When she answers you look away from her; look either over your shoulder or over her shoulder. This shows that you aren't really interested in her answer. Because, come on, it is a somewhat direct thing to ask. When you look uninterested in her answer, she will have more respect for you -- paradox, yeah, haha. But make sure it's longer than a glance and less than a stare.

    Pinter has good stuff: playfully negging her after she answers -- gold.

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    I used this one yesterday:
    After a few minutes of flirting I grabbed her arm (good comfort zone) and I said to her "come on, let's hide somewhere before your boyfriend sees us" (I didn't say why we should hide)
    her "I don't have a boyfriend"
    me "so, do we make out here?"

    It worked!

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    Default Re: How to find out if she has a boyfriend

    I would agree with Pinter if it wasn't for the negging part. Negging is extremely dangerous to do because it has the potential to elicit a bad response from her. This is because what you take as a neg, she would take as an insult. No one likes insults.

    Flirting is a far safer option. It's fun and everybody loves it. As for how you would figure out if she's single or not, just ask her! Guys and girls ask the question all the time, it's not weird if you ask her what her current relationship status is. After the question, if she asks why, you just flirt back with her. If you don't want to just pop the question, then flirting always work.

    Don't take risks and chances when you don't have to. Don't neg. Do flirt.
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