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Thread: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

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    Default Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    There is this girl that i met last year while at school at our local club thing, i was able to Number Close and mentioning of how we both thought we were pretty good looking people, she ended up not returning to school but had moved closer to where home (a few hours away from where i go to schoool). Well i've been home from school for a few months and i had just recently broken up with a girl that i had been seeing for awhile and the day after i made it official on facebook i had recieved a text from this girl "hey stranger"

    now since the first time i had met this girl i had only hung out with her a few times with no attraction being built which is often where i fall short so i figued i was FZ. She then started texting me regularly asking for an application at the place im working at and talking about summer plans and things of that nature and posssible interactions togeather. I believed i was starting to build some general attraction and rapport with her through text

    her "haha well thanks, good to know. So what else is in your skell set of awesomeness?"

    me "your welcome, well i tell hilarious jokes and stories, im really good at reading people and their emotions, i give f*ing kick a$$ massages, there are a few other ones but u gotta know the password if u wanna find out"

    some more banter with teasing and smiley faces continues about what the password was ( aaron is a sexy beast ) we had talked about this password and she had said it to me before but then i think i came in a little to hard too fast

    me "damn strait , but u gotta tell me some more of your awesome skills first before i tell u mine cause their special like that, can u tie a cherry stem?"

    Her " Haha i'm still in practice with that actually, you have to give me time to think of some of my awesome skills cuz i'm not in the best mood riht now so i can't think of any at the moment"

    realizing upon my possible mistake or feeling bad about it i waited a bit and replied with

    me "yea im still practicing on that too lol, cant whistle though ;/, and that's ok no worries, hope u get in a better mood lemme know if i can help wit anyting"
    fortune favors the bold

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    Default Re: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    don't tell her you're willing to help her out with anything. She's gonna friendzone you if you do. On the flip side, if she asks you for help, that's a different story. Still you should be reluctant.
    Chill out on the texting for a few days and see what happens. don't make yourself always available.

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    Default Re: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    She also seemed to be trying to get that reaction out of you with saying she isn't in a great mood right now. You should of ignored it completely. Girls do that for the response. If something was seriously bothering her and she wanted to talk about it, she would. But she just said she wasn't in a great mood hoping you would react to it.

    What you did is tell her mind this, "I now have a sense of control over him".

    Guys who are controlled by girls, subconsciously, like that become just friends, nothing else, nothing more.

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    Default Re: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    thank you guys i appreciate the advice
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    Default Re: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    This is hardly strong. To be an alpha, sometimes you gotta be shameless and unapologetic. As long as you don't do stupid sh1t like bringing up her weight and such and have a degree of tact.

    I second what was said above, which is one of the rules of attraction.
    - DO NOT offer to make her feel better to be "one of the girls" so she can talk to about her problems/source of bad mood.

    For example, a girl I'm working on told me she wasn't feeling well. I texted her.
    "You're sick? I got the perfect cure for that - strong drinks with hot guys named [my name]."

    "I can give you a lap dance. Normally I charge $100 for 3 dances and no touching above the belt. But for you I'll give you a discount."

    Next thing, I got a string of lol type of texts from her. She was really sick and had to go to the ER, but I made her laugh.

    My only other criticism of your text is don't be so direct with her. When she asks you "So what else is in your skell set of awesomeness?" I always read it as a minor Sh1t Test.

    I would give an off the wall answer.

    "I'm good at driving getaway cars, I give killer foot massages, and I have healthy strands of DnA."

    When texting, just like in real life conversation, always control the conversation. Don't be afraid to mindfvck her more.

    When you do that, it sparks off an emotional response in them. Women are emotional creatures. Be confident and speak to them in emotions. It will translate in her mind that this guy is awesome and will feel attracted to you without you actually having to give her a factual list.

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    Default Re: Need help, girl from school, came on too strong? very long

    The interaction was fine. She was put on the spot a little and couldn't perform at the end. Maybe she didn't think she has any awesome skills or maybe her imagination was running short, she then couldn't reply very wittingly.

    If anything, your last text said "well cool, I'll talk to ya later." It was end to the conversation, nothing more, nothing less. And I would come to be believe if anything, shows that you control the interaction. I realize this post is a few days old but if you haven't replied just use her time frame against her. "Awesome skills time, what ya got for me? I'm not very easy to impress so i hope you've done your homework."


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