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Thread: An empty but occupied table!

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    Default An empty but occupied table!

    I few girls were sitting at a table and then they left to do some stuff, but they left some of their clothes at the seats. Then I just went there sat down and was chilling and drinking my beer. After 5 minutes two of them came back, with a wine bottle and 7 wine glasses and then the conversation went like this

    Girl1: oh, so you are sitting here?
    Me: Yeah, the guy asked me where I wanted my food and then I pointed at this table, plus the sun is really great here.
    Girl2: We are celebrating that some of us have graduated.
    Me: Oh, nice in what field?
    Girl2: Engineering.
    Me: Cool, then you are used to deal with a lot of math. Then you'd probably do good as economists as well, or get a job in the private sector.
    Girl1: I don't think so.
    Me: No? An engineering friend of mine works in the private sector as a consultant and he makes a lot of money.
    Girl2: Not to be rude, but we are here celebrating and we got here early to get a good table, so we want you to go somewhere else and find a table elsewhere.

    So, what should I have done differently?

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    Default Re: An empty but occupied table!

    I few girls were sitting at a table and then they left to do some stuff, but they left some of their clothes at the seats. Then I just went there sat down and was chilling and drinking my beer. After 5 minutes two of them came back, with a wine bottle and 7 wine glasses and then the conversation went like this
    That was the biggest reason to why you failed. Not only was moving over to their table while they they were gone rude, but it was also creepy as well. I've never even heard of this being acceptable in terms of approaching. Never do this again.

    Girl1: oh, so you are sitting here?
    Me: Yeah, the guy asked me where I wanted my food and then I pointed at this table, plus the sun is really great here.
    Girl2: We are celebrating that some of us have graduated.
    Me: Oh, nice in what field?
    Girl2: Engineering.
    Me: Cool, then you are used to deal with a lot of math. Then you'd probably do good as economists as well, or get a job in the private sector.
    Girl1: I don't think so.
    Me: No? An engineering friend of mine works in the private sector as a consultant and he makes a lot of money.
    Girl2: Not to be rude, but we are here celebrating and we got here early to get a good table, so we want you to go somewhere else and find a table elsewhere.
    Everything I have emboldened and underlined above is stuff that you could have done better, which makes nearly the entire conversation. The only positive I can point out is detail. You avoided the question train and you were great with detail. However, none of this seemed to fire up the interaction any bit. I did not sense any humor, and as this conversation went on, the Tension could be felt more and more to the breaking point.

    Here is how I think you could have worded the conversation to go at least a little better:

    Girl1: oh, so you are sitting here?
    Me: Unfortunately, no. You see, there were two nice young ladies who walked into here and got this table, which happens to be the best in the house and my favorite for my decent exposure to some uv rays. You know, you bear a remarkable resemblance to them
    Girl1: We are those girls.
    Me: Well would you look at that! You know, for looking so nice and getting a table as equally great, you must be here for a special occasion.
    Girl2: Um, yeah, we are celebrating that some of us have graduated.
    Me: Some? So I'm guessing you graduated then, and then you didn't (poking fun at the context of the comment)
    Girl1: Yeah, no, I did successfully graduate
    Me: Oh, nice in what field?
    Girl2: Engineering.
    Me: Sweet! I admire you already for being able to go into a field where you utilize all that math that we learned in high school, but will never use again in our lives
    Girl1: .
    Me: Speaking of math, did you know that there are only fifty professions where you can make over $50 an hour? 49 of the 50 require calculus
    Girl1: What profession is there where you don't need math to make a ton of money?
    Me: Working the corner (prostitution)
    Girl2: Not to be rude, but we are here celebrating and we got here early to get a good table, so we want you to go somewhere else and find a table elsewhere.
    This is only one way in which I can view the interaction being better. Like I said before though, you farked up your chances when you went over there while they were gone.

    With that being said, I think if you were more humorous it might have saved you. These girls were already mad enough at you for taking their table, so I don't think that you would have succeeded anyways.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: An empty but occupied table!

    at least you tried! I give you props for that. Next time just try to not come on too talkative like a creep
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