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    Barbin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default i dont talk alot..

    Hello Guys ,
    I have a problem that i think many got it too , i was very shy not long time ago and im not a "good talker".
    I dont talk when i sit with friend or with girls or something i just sit there and no say nothing , when i think about it i dont have nothing to say so i shut up .
    what can i do? it lack of self coinfidence or something? help me please!!

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    Default Re: i dont talk alot..

    I don't believe that someone has nothing to say. You are just shy to work your mouth.

    If you really really have nothing to talk about, go out there, do some random sh1t and create awesome stories out of them. Just live fully.

    If you are shy to talk, that's probably the fear of "what will people think about what I say?". The way to overcome that issue, which is an inner game issue, is to constantly remind yourself that: "You don't give a fark about what other people think of you." You just go out there, say what you wanna say because you felt like it was the time to say it.

    Don't let other people lead your conversations. Don't let other people re-frame you because you are a 'weak speaker'. And don't forget, speaking is just a small part of your game, you have to work on your body language, so that people around you notice your existence and your power.

    (Also remember, improving your speaking abilities is not just for picking up girls. It'll help you in every aspect of your life. Any kind of social communication, presentations, job interviews, and the list goes on...)

    Edit: I'm naturally a good speaker. Maybe the experts that fought their way through their speaking problems can help you more on this...

    Good luck,
    Wolf.
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    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Barbin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: i dont talk alot..

    thank u very much u help me alot .


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