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    About 3 hours ago I left my house and walked to a local convenience store. I was just about there when I ran into a girl that I had hooked up with back in november.(nothing serious i was a virgin and a big wuss even though i knew she really liked me and wanted it. I eventually scared her off because i was just THAT nice guy.) Anyway back to my story. I ran into her and she said oh let me come with you i haven't seen you in a while. i said ok and we did etc. We started to walk home (we both live in the same direction) when she asked me to come over. Its 11:30-12 so i said yea sure thinking i was getting some. Turned out i wasnt.... her roomate was there with us basically the whole time.

    So what just happened? I dont know why i would be invited back for nothing... we have never hung out just as friends. and how do i proceed from here?

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    It's hard to say, what did you guys do when you got there? Did you try to Isolate her and generate any comfort? Maybe she just wanted to hang out. Or maybe she wanted to be with you, but was waiting for you to try to amp up the attraction.

    How did it go when you left?

    We need more details.

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    Sounds like this was a potential shit test - something my past hookups have done to me. They're usually curious to see if, after all this time, they still have a sexual power over you. Did you try to hook up with her that night? My advice would be to not, and instead run your friends game on her, especially if her roommate was there. Run some opening game and a few dhv's, but nothing more, and show her that she'll have to make an effort to get you to like her, and if she doesn't you're just not interested in her like that.

    Let me know how it goes!

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    yea i think it could have gone either way really. my one option was to really try to ramp up some attraction and make a move. second being just play the friend game and dhv and leave her saying wtf. Unfortunately it was neither. It was just friend without dhv. As far as when i was leaving it was just weird she was like leaning against the edge of the door and i couldnt go in for a hug. Stole her hat instead to try to get something going but it just got some smiles. Figure ill just give it some time now and see if she comes to me at all.

    Oh heres some back story. last weekend she sent me a mass text saying i won an open bar here and to give her names if i wanted to come/bring people. i responded that i couldnt because i had a girl comming from home and she wasnt 21 but i hoped she had fun. (felt good haha)

    she didnt respond to this but i wonder if it was the catalyst to her inviting me over. to see if i was different now. she very well could have missed it too being that like i said she was mass texting about an open bar.

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    Another possibility is that she wanted you to come over where, both she and her friend could judge you.

    I think it is likely, that she is a little interested in you, but she wants to make sure you aren't still the same guy she used to know. You can be certain that they discussed your various merits after you left, if she was interested in you. These friend conversations generally hurt your chances.

    In all of the possible scenarios that have been mentioned, the best thing would have been to try to meet up with her at another location, at a later date. Personally, I wouldn't have even agreed to go with her when she invited you because it suggests that you still might be a nice guy, with no ability to control your own life.

    After you got there, your best chance was to follow what the previous guys have suggested.


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