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    Default Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    Hello to all of you in the forum!!!
    I have no game but Id like to have it.
    Most of the time I go to places by my own because of the lack of wingmen to go out and I have to say that I'm used to do it.
    Here in the forum I've read that to get rid of the anxiety you have to talk to strangers about anything and so you will build the confidence to talk to anyone. Ive repeated this to myself over and over but when Im on the place cant think of anything to talk about.
    Could you recommend some topics to talk when sarging alone at clubs/bars??

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    Default Re: Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    There is no limit to "anything." You answered your own question. Approach and talk about anything. At this stage you need to work on getting over your fear of approaching. Next time you see someone, analyze them, pick out something, and then make a statement about it.
    Example to a girl:

    You: *analyze* Those Nike shoe's are awesome!
    Her: Haha thanks
    You: I only buy Nike's because all other shoe companies have failed me. You must run a lot with shoes like that.
    Her: blah blah blah

    and just continue the conversation. Whenever you feel like changing topics, do so. The only thing I ask of you is just stay in each conversation as long as you can.

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    Default Re: Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    Don't worry dude, I do the same thing all the time. I can say that I usually have more fun when I'm riding solo than when I have to deal with the people around me.

    Anyways, I have two bits of advice for you that can really get you rolling with your social game.

    The first bit is nouning. Nouning is when you pick out a noun in a person's sentence in order to continue the interaction. For example, you ask:

    "So what college do you go to?"

    And her response is as follows:

    "I go to Purdue University, my plan is to major in International Business"

    Now you have two different nouns to work from. You either have Purdue, or you have her major. Either one will allow you to build up a conversation off of that. The only important thing is to not start going on a question train with her. Keep it flowing and interesting.

    The second bit is observing the details around you. If you are out solo sarging, keep in mind what is going on around you. For example, if you are in a restaurant, and it is nearly empty, there is a conversation topic right there. Start up a tangent off of that.

    Details are always important in conversation. Too much can be a killjoy, so don't observe every grain of sand on the beach. But be mindful of the beach itself and what is going on currently, past and in the future on the beach. That is how you can carry a good conversation.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    Thank you for the response. To swagman, I had read something about nouning and it sounds logic because when I get home a lot of things that I could have said come to my mind. I think i have to speak my mind instead of keep my mouth southed.

    I think all of this sound weird to me but I will give a try , it is just matter of time to get confortable about doing it.

    Any other advice when you run out of things to say?

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    Default Re: Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    Along with "nouning" I love using situational openers which, as previously mentioned, are just taking in your surroundings and starting a conversation like that.

    Example (girl was wearing a flower dress):

    Me: Hey, cute dress...are you the maid of honor?! (Slight neg but she laughed)
    Her: Actually my mom made this for me blah blah blah

    I had a long/awesome conversation with this girl just by picking out something simple that I observed....learn to keep a conversation flowing naturally. That will be more important than any opener out there!

    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: Opening when sarging solo ideas?

    open everyone, and get physical fast. don't let everyone get in your way. if you want to talk, just talk don't worry about interrupting people. when you want to take her home, just grab her and tell her "let's go" be the leader. just do it.


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