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    Rainbawss is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Online dating openers

    I've recently got this new app called Instagram, which is kind of like Facebook, but a lot better, because it's all about pictures so you don't need to read about all the drama that people regularly post to the public like on Facebook. Now there's even an app called InstaMessage which allows you to talk to people on Instagram, making it very simillar to a dating site.

    I first started with initial "heys" and "whats up". Wasn't really getting me nowhere, except I did f close this one girl, but that's just because she found me really attractive.

    Now, I'm trying some new approaches. Just today, I tried "Finally someone who doesn't look like a total slut!" and it seemed to work well.

    So, I was wondering if you guys had some good openers to share that actually worked before.

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    Ohh thats exactly what i need for online dating. I am always stuck on what to say to women over the internet to make them respond kindly.

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    that slut one sounds good i might try thatt. i useually get more replies when i make a observation that i just 'had' to point out. e.g. i notice you had a rose tattoo i design tattoo's myself ........

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    I found this one on a forum back, or it might even be from David DeAngelo, but its not original and whoever they are is a genius! But we all are in this together.


    Hello (their use name)
    Hmm, let see something profound, to get your attention...
    The best way to show
    That! Stand out from the crowd
    Is a Haiku poem
    No, that's no good...
    Act with in the hour
    And ill also include a
    Free sense of humor
    No, no, no that's no good at all
    A single white male
    Dependable, low mileage
    What am I? A car?
    Hmm maybe some dating advice....
    Always be careful
    If you laugh at all his jokes
    You'll end up in bed.
    No, definitely not, please wait why I slap myself,
    Thank you for your patience. Maybe:
    I have bled my best
    If you're chuckling or smiling
    Message me back
    If you can handle me, that is!
    -(Your name)



    Use it with care, this is the one weird trick that will get you laid

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    Quote Originally Posted by Ladiesman217 View Post
    I found this one on a forum back, or it might even be from David DeAngelo, but its not original and whoever they are is a genius! But we all are in this together.


    Hello (their use name)
    Hmm, let see something profound, to get your attention...
    The best way to show
    That! Stand out from the crowd
    Is a Haiku poem
    No, that's no good...
    Act with in the hour
    And ill also include a
    Free sense of humor
    No, no, no that's no good at all
    A single white male
    Dependable, low mileage
    What am I? A car?
    Hmm maybe some dating advice....
    Always be careful
    If you laugh at all his jokes
    You'll end up in bed.
    No, definitely not, please wait why I slap myself,
    Thank you for your patience. Maybe:
    I have bled my best
    If you're chuckling or smiling
    Message me back
    If you can handle me, that is!
    -(Your name)



    Use it with care, this is the one weird trick that will get you laid
    hahahaha that's joke. Has it worked?

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    Quote Originally Posted by Kosbow View Post
    hahahaha that's joke. Has it worked?

    Of course! You get two replies:
    1. OMG that is the most creative message ive ever gotten, you made my day
    or
    2. How many girls have you sent that to? (my favorite)




    Or I use this one:
    Wow... from your profile you sound like an interesting, intelligent, balanced woman. Are you SURE you’re from this planet?? Im usually pretty busy rejecting dates from rich supermodels and volunteering with orphaned puppies but im sure I could find some time to message you I can be reached at (phone number or email) talk to me.

    The great part about that one is its direct and to the point. Often they will message you back with their phone number telling you to text them. Rarely will you get a negative/bitchy response.

    As for subject, the goal is to intrigue them and make them open your message so they see the GOOD stuff.
    Ive found that Re: works pretty well.
    The other one I use is This User Maybe Interested In You. BE CAREFUL, when you put that one with a message like the above two they often realize that you're automating it and mass sending. For this, I've found that if you take something off of their profile, add humor or comment about it, and then use that as the subject. Thats the most effective way to use it.


    P.S. this has all been found out on MeetMe over the past three years. I havent tried anything else.

    Best of luck,
    Scott

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    Those look like they would actually work. Can I use them?

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    "so how many guys have send you the exact same boring msg all saying the same thing, hey sexy, wanna fck, damn you fine?"


    or

    "blue or red"
    this one usually works pretty well. send it to a random girl they usually always respond back. then from there be like "hair down or up" "panties or thongs"

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    Quote Originally Posted by ASoundSoul View Post
    Those look like they would actually work. Can I use them?
    Of course! We are all in this together

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    Default Re: Online dating openers

    The haiku I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole. It's too hard to follow. You sacrifice making sense for the sake of rhyme. Plus, it's just weird. Nobody writes foot long haikus on the fly. It's unbelievable.

    That guy Alex has a better grasp on this. I use a variation of the second one. I usually ask boxers or briefs. It works fairly well, not the best but it's consistent.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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