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    Vexing Haze is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Help with a Drama Geek

    So I actually managed to seal the deal with this girl I've been flirting with in high school for six months. It's funny because she actually began pick up with me. We were in a Drama production together in February and she began rubbing my abs. It honestly made me uncomfortable (rape!, rape!) but that's because I'm not a very physical person.

    Unfortunately, I did not pull her number during the school year. Didn't really think of it. So, today I resorted to asking her out over Facebook. It took forever. I must have had the message written out for an hour before I finally pressed send. It has to be easier to do this over the phone. Maybe it was so difficult because it was my first time asking a girl out (18 here). I don't know.

    I'd like to ask you all to critique my conversation with her. Does she seem interested? I noticed she quickly changed the subject afterwards. Is it understood as a romantic date? I've got a general idea of what to ask her out to do. I was thinking either a late afternoon picnic at the beach OR a movie date to see Monsters Inc (she's a big Disney fan).

    Really, I am simply elated by the fact that I actually asked a girl out. Though it was not in the manner I would have preffered, I was able to muster up the confidence to finally do it. I couldn't have done it without your help.

    i.imgur.com/oMgmbXR.png?1

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    PUAKevin is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Help with a Drama Geek

    Good job for asking a girl out!

    I can't see the picture you enclosed.

    A movie date as just seeing a movie and leave is not preferable, especially on your first date. You can't talk with her and the next day all she can remember of the date was the movie. She gets to know the movie characters better than she gets to know you. A movie date + extra activity such as having a drink is much better because you can get comfortable being around her at the movies and you can get to know each other during the drink afterwards.

    If you would still like to get some feedback on your text conversation than you should enclose a new picture.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Drama Geek

    The key here is to develop the standing belief that she SHOULD want to date you. Framing is everything when it comes to confidence, or the appearance of confidence. Think of it as acting (like your drama classes).. When you enter an interaction with women, you are still yourself, but a calm, attractive, sexual, confident, alpha male version of yourself.. what Style calls your 'Best Self'. That's the you you want to be around her. Ditch the movie and go for the beach thing, and relax. This isn't the notebook no need to read her poetry and profess, just be alpha, display value, and be in control. She will be wild for you in no time. Here's a link to Virgil's famed "Alpha male" thread (http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...le-thread.html). Print it and read it every morning. Works wonders man. Cheers

    - Mojo


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