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Thread: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy", wtf?

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    Exclamation HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy", wtf?

    Hey pimps,

    Just frustrated right now lol. I'm a very attractive guy with a great body and 6 foot in height. Over the past year i've worked on getting past my Approach Anxiety and now im fearless when approaching any girl, but still need work on my teasing and negs to build attraction.

    Ok, enough of me. The point is i just met this girl HB8.5 last week who is a fitness instructor at my college gym and she teaches a new bodyworkout program, i'd say she is 21 or 22 blonde hair and great personality with a lota energy. My schools ratio guys to girls really sux but I was in the gyms studio last week where they do zumba and all that other silly stuff. Well i seen her just finish a class with some HB7,8,9s and i did an indirect approach asking her what class it was and acted really interested asking her a lot of questions then going into rapport with her, other people were around so i really couldn't game her with kino. Well she was done and she said i should do the class next week. So now is next week, i came to the gym 30min before the class so i could stretch and do some weights beforehand. I walked into the studio and seen her and she seen me then we talked for a bit then got the class going and after teaching the class she asked me how it was and we starting chit-chatting. I tryed to build some more rapport but in this case i told her that we should go rock climbing and that i could call her and set up a time, but she kinda hesitated, looked around and said that her schedule was really busy during the week, so i just took it cool and said "well some other time and said see you next week" then she walked off.
    I duno, but i think my mistake was that she thought i was genuinely interested in the class and was shocked that i asked her out. The fact that she was just a really energetic girl came across me as a big IOI in my mind so thats why i wanted to take her out, but confused now. Anyways, she seems like my type and kinda feel like she has the control now. Any helpful advice? Should i just brush it off and go back to her class next week and just build more comfort and let her chase me? I dont even know if she has a bf at least. Thanks

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    Default Re: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy",

    See "Hired Guns" .................... .................

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    Default Re: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy",

    Ahh i see now. My confusion is gone. She has to be hit on a lot so she probably turned me down because she thinks im like the rest of the guys on campus and its just instinct now. Looks like i'll have to put in a stronger game plan this time around, but are there any recommendations to fix this situation if i want to go back taking a class without looking like a tool?

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    Default Re: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy",

    Go take another girl or a group of your friends rock climbing. Take pictures. Then go back to the gym to do the class again. After class tell her that she missed out on a great time. Show her the pics. Ask her what she ended up doing. Then whatever she says you tease her that it was pretty lame.

    It will show her that you DON"T need to wait around for her. That you are a guy who does what he wants and when he does. If you have a bunch of friends in these pics it's social proof. If they are friends who happen to be girls that's even better.

    Instead of asking a girl if she wants to go rock climbing, you could have worded it differently. "Hey if you want to lose a bit of extra flab join my friends and I for a fun but challenging rock climb on Saturday."

    That sounds way more Alpha than coming across as needing her permission to take her rock climbing.

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    Default Re: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy",

    Dont be as direct, and it requires alot more stimulation on your end..trying to add a spice to things she hasnt seen before, or rarely, and hope that you can queue up her interest that way.

    Like with me I probably would busted her balls a bit about the class....Oh its not too bad, a little bit low energy and such, not bad cardio....just put w/e in other than the usual response she probably receives "Oh its the best class ever, your the best instructor and a pretty girl" etc.

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    Default Re: HB8.5 fitness instructor gives tons of IOI's but said "week too busy",

    Been dating a PT for a while now. Same concept applies.

    You just have realise IOIs don't mean anything. I can get an ioi from almost everyone i talk to - doesn't mean i'll get anywhere with them.

    If you say she sounded surprised you asked her out it means you didn't make your intentions clear enough. So many of my friends are having this problem.

    TOUCH HER. A lot. And not in a pussy way. Be teasing, fun and flirty when you can. Don't let her think it's innocent but dont let her know what you want either.


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