Just frustrated right now lol. I'm a very attractive guy with a great body and 6 foot in height. Over the past year i've worked on getting past my Approach Anxiety and now im fearless when approaching any girl, but still need work on my teasing and negs to build attraction.
Ok, enough of me. The point is i just met this girl HB8.5 last week who is a fitness instructor at my college gym and she teaches a new bodyworkout program, i'd say she is 21 or 22 blonde hair and great personality with a lota energy. My schools ratio guys to girls really sux but I was in the gyms studio last week where they do zumba and all that other silly stuff. Well i seen her just finish a class with some HB7,8,9s and i did an indirect approach asking her what class it was and acted really interested asking her a lot of questions then going into rapport with her, other people were around so i really couldn't game her with kino. Well she was done and she said i should do the class next week. So now is next week, i came to the gym 30min before the class so i could stretch and do some weights beforehand. I walked into the studio and seen her and she seen me then we talked for a bit then got the class going and after teaching the class she asked me how it was and we starting chit-chatting. I tryed to build some more rapport but in this case i told her that we should go rock climbing and that i could call her and set up a time, but she kinda hesitated, looked around and said that her schedule was really busy during the week, so i just took it cool and said "well some other time and said see you next week" then she walked off.
I duno, but i think my mistake was that she thought i was genuinely interested in the class and was shocked that i asked her out. The fact that she was just a really energetic girl came across me as a big IOI in my mind so thats why i wanted to take her out, but confused now. Anyways, she seems like my type and kinda feel like she has the control now. Any helpful advice? Should i just brush it off and go back to her class next week and just build more comfort and let her chase me? I dont even know if she has a bf at least. Thanks