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    Default Need Help WIth Cute Girl at Retail Store

    Okay so there is this really cute girl that I have talked to twice that works at Pacsun and I wanted to know if there is a way that I should approach this, I was thinking about just approaching her next time I see her and being straight up and letting her know what my real intentions. I was wondering if this was the right way to approach her or if there would be a better way to get her number and go for a date. Any advice will be much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need Help WIth Cute Girl at Retail Store

    Quote Originally Posted by aantiporda View Post
    Okay so there is this really cute girl that I have talked to twice that works at Pacsun and I wanted to know if there is a way that I should approach this, I was thinking about just approaching her next time I see her and being straight up and letting her know what my real intentions. I was wondering if this was the right way to approach her or if there would be a better way to get her number and go for a date. Any advice will be much appreciated.


    Dude I hate to break it to you but you are treading on thin ice here. You are speaking of gaming a Hired Gun. If you want to roll with a Hired Gun you better be ready to bring the pain and I mean big time! I just got played hard by 5 Hired Guns in a row. Got 1 Bartender's FB and # and her BF started stalking me, the other Bartender played me for her BF she didn't tell me about for 2 months, The Cocktail Waitress tried to Hook up with me, got her on FB then she flipped because I auto-rejected her when she tried to hook up one night and broke out the BF card, the last girl I hit on in the Buckle embarassed me when I asked for her # by making the situation very uncomfortable, the other Buckle girl yelled at me and said she works too much.

    In theory never approach or close a Hired Gun whether they be a Bartender, Waitress, or Retail Shop Girl. You got to keep your hands clean go for the ones who are free a lot easier that way. But if you really feel like closing the Hired Gun I found a very effective method. Facebook close her first.

    FB Close
    "Hey I usually add people I meet on FB, what's your last name?" This is very easy and effortless works like a charm if you know her first name. You can # close her on FB or next time you see her a lot easier.

    2nd Close on Hired Gun
    "Hey HB I need your #"

    I just used that method and it worked perfectly just didn't end well like I said and going to steer clear of Hired Guns for a while since there is so much drama and maybe only close them if they try to close me. I like closing girls not Hired Guns anymore. Also by bringing the pain if you score the FB or # you better play with her head like crazy with freeze outs, hot & cold, push-pull, flirty negs, just got to play total hardball with these ones cuz they will bring it. By bringing the pain as well you better be like super ready for a ton of sh!t tests too. These ones have fooled me hard and played me for a fool about getting me in, not having a BF but having one, appearing single, losing their phones when they had them on them, etc. Bring your A Game otherwise back away and go for an easier set. I think the main drawback to gaming Hired Guns is when you are doing it a place you like going to then if things go sour the experience there is partially ruined and the BF will know if you are there and start knowing about all your activites there since the Hired Guns can play you and they tell their BF's everything like they are bored or something! Beware of entering these sets due to controlling BF's and women playing you like they don't have a BF then telling their BF you are stalking them. Even if you ask them if they have a BF they will still beat around the bush to look available to most men since they love playing the field.

    By bringing the pain I mean it is not for the faint of heart (like a guy looking for a GF) and a guy who is totally hard to get (prize) that all the women are after (Alpha) has a heart of stone (confidence) and not a heart of gold (romantic) then yeah you might have a chance at getting her. You got to play her with your very best game like you are playing her only to play the game not to win. Remember that. Hired Guns will bust your balls tread carefully if at all. Try it out you'll see what I mean! Who knows maybe she won't make it so hard on you? I got played by all those Hired Guns why? Because I wasn't playing them to play the game I was trying to get them and I didn't see their sh!t tests as sh!t tests and that's where I totally got played and had my blinders on. In total shock right now of Hired Guns and how hard they are to game.

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    Default Re: Need Help WIth Cute Girl at Retail Store

    Another thing I wanted to mention about Hired Guns here.


    The Social Dynamic of Hired Guns
    I can't stress enough never # closing a Hired Gun these women get hit on so many times in a day you have to stand out in the crowd. I have had Bartenders literally Facebook close me so this is where I picked it up. After I started Facebook closing Hired Guns it has been smooth sailing since then. Whenever I tried N-closing a Hired Gun I felt awkward and due to the law of state transfer they felt this too and shot me down hard. N-close any other girl never makes me feel awkward but there is so much social pressure for N-closing a Hired Gun that when you Facebook close them not only do they praise you but they will be happy when you stand out from the crowd.

    Also you can never read a Hired Gun it is just so hard. I had a Bartender grabbing me, pinching my nipples, asking me to come see her, hugging me and begged me to be friends with her, gave me her #, gave me her FB, asked me to hit her up next day, said she wanted to tickle me then BAM out came the BF stalking me saying I was stalking her. How could I be stalking her if it was warranted and she acted totally single like this?

    One of the Buckle girls asked me to show her my body and said "I want to see all the clothes you try on!" and I was like this shirt is great and she was like "Show me!" then later when I N-closed her she clammed up and embarassed me in front of the whole store and started flirting with her manager and stopped flirting with me. Another Bartender who Facebook closed me and got me in free all the time said we could "hang out this Summer" then BAM 2 months later she is like "That DJ you just talked to was my BF." You just can't read Hired Guns because they love attention from Men and get all sour when you get too serious.

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    Default Re: Need Help WIth Cute Girl at Retail Store

    i always do well with the Hired Gun... do some research on some of the stuff they sell, then go in and ask her questions about it... if she's smiling and flirting you're in... before you leave say something like she's made you smile so you have to ask for her number...

    Hired Guns have to talk to you, it's there job... just watch for signs...

    but agreed bartenders and waitresses are tougher since they get hit on by every joe blow that walks through the door with their buddies


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