Ok so there are two HB's I have been small talking and "gaming" when ever I see them while I get my morning coffee before work and while checking out at the grocery store every weekend.
So first, the grocery store girl. I have been going to this particular store for groceries every weekend for the past month or two and I have talked to her a few times just making some small talk with her while checking out. She seemed happy to see me every time I went to her line. To clarify, I dont always go to her line, I hadnt gone to hers for about 2 weeks until this past weekend (Didnt want to make it obvious). So this past week before I could even start a conversation with her she says:
HB7: Hey I remember you, you look familiar.
me: Oh really? Your recognize me?
hb7: Yeah (smiles)
me: Well I am kind of offended, you still have never introduced yourself to me.
hb7: she laughs introduces herself and shakes me hand in between ringing me up.
continue some minor small talk and she asks for my store card
me: I dont have it on me
hb7: ok so whats your phone number?
me: (give number, then jokingly say) I see what you just did there, I am on to you
hb7: haha what did I just do?
me: Thats a clever way to get a guys number
hb7: Laughs and says oh you caught me
again some minor small talk and then I pay,and while leaving she says see you again soon.
The first few times I talked to her (I think its been 3 times in all), I figured she was just being chatty/nice because she had to but this past week she seemed kind of flirty, and she did remember me and was receptive to some minor flirting. My question is, should I keep it simple and keep doing what I have been doing for now, or next time should I try number closing?
The coffee shop girl is new at the shop I go to so I havent talked to her too much yet but shes a solid HB8. My questions here are as follows.
1. I go to this shop everyday, so I am worried about if I get blown out, that I will have to see her a lot afterwards and possibly things could be kind of awkward.
2. This other girl that works there that I have known for a few months and become somewhat friendly with definitely wants me, but shes to put it nicely a big girl lets say and just not my type at all looks wise, very nice girl though. This seems like something that could complicate things.
3. I am slightly worried about this girls age. She looks a little young, I am 24 and she looks like she is at the oldest 20, which is fine if shes that young, but I worry that she is younger, and the last thing I want to do is go for a girl that is too young. Girls that look like they could be too young usually are. Is there a discreet way to find out how old she is with out directly asking her? Like I said, last thing I want to be doing is hitting on some girl still in high school at the coffee shop i go to everyday lol.
so any tips advice, criticism is great.