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    Default Confusion regarding Shit Test

    So I'm a little confused about something, I've been reading that we shouldn't back down on something we believe but also that we should just let it slide, ignore it or reverse it into something ridiculous.

    Here's the situation, this girl I'm talking to used some program to change the resolution on pictures of her to make her appear "taller" and "thinner". She then asks "which one looks better?" I remain honest and tell her the one that is untouched. She then begins to argue that "she's gotten so many compliments on those photos and everyone likes them more and how could I think that"... At this point I just said "I don't care what everyone else likes, you asked my opinion and I gave it."

    Now I'm not sure if this was the best response or if I should have just ignored this or tried to make it funny. Bottom like is I was being honest and didn't want to be dictated to what I should like.

    Sorry if this seems like a dumb question but I'm just a recovering "nice guy" so this all is quite new for me. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Confusion regarding Shit Test

    Next time a girl asks you to choose something where you think it's a no win situations just say, " Neither pic, go get some more pics taken."

    Which dress looks better?

    Reply, " They're both about the same, go try on something else." Let her explain and justify which one is better. Notice how much more ALPHA the response is?

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    Default Re: Confusion regarding Shit Test

    Thanks Dave, that was kind of the issue I had, at first I was proud I stood up for what I believe but then in hindsight it was like I was defending myself. Great examples

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    Default Re: Confusion regarding sh1t Test

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    Next time a girl asks you to choose something where you think it's a no win situations just say, " Neither pic, go get some more pics taken."

    Which dress looks better?

    Reply, " They're both about the same, go try on something else." Let her explain and justify which one is better. Notice how much more ALPHA the response is?
    Love the response Dave!

    Don't worry bud, I am a former nice addict myself. It takes a while to go away, but once you own up to your new self, people will admire you for it.

    For starters, and as Dave implied, don't worry about being painfully honest. Some women actually love it. I get taken on shopping trips with women all the time because I'm not afraid to tell them if they look ugly or fat in a certain outfit. Sometimes, burns can also be funny. It takes a good sense of dry humor in order to execute it though.

    What most people mean by your opening is that you should stand strong for your own beliefs. No matter what happens, don't let anybody else change them. The "let it slide" part applies to other people. If someone else challenges your beliefs, or they don't agree with them, so what? They're your beliefs, and if they continue to question them further, that's when you turn the tables on them.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Confusion regarding Shit Test

    when my girlfriend ask me a question .I tell her exactly. Its a different game played when you are dating remember that. If your woman is putting on weight tell her she need to workout. If the dress doesnt look flattering you tell her go try on something else.

    Remember Alpha means leader not "I should avoid truth by all means". Women likes confident men remember that. And confidence is you stick to your guns by all means. What do you have to lose she already banging you?
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