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    mjstew is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Initiating physical contact

    Hey so this is my first post. I'm just really getting started with trying to pick up girls and all, and I don't have too much trouble with the approach or even talking to them, I'm just a little unclear on when/how to initiate touching/physical contact, especially at bars/clubs.

    I understand that every situation and every girl is a little different, and that she obviously has to be into me for it to work, but I'm just hoping for some general pointers on some of the best/better ways to transition from just talking/flirting to touching/kissing.

    One little caveat, I don't dance, so that one's out. Its not because I don't want to, I'm just a terrible dancer, always have been, and it NEVER works out well if I dance, lol.

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    Default Re: Initiating physical contact

    Kino right off the bat!

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/1...n-dicarlo.html

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    Default Re: Initiating physical contact

    She does NOT have to be into you for it to work. Kino is not just sexual touch. It's ANY touch. I always start with a playful tap or shove on their shoulder after they say something funny. Then progress until I have my arm around her waist. It's a process and you should always start kino ASAP after you meet them. It'll only make it awkward later.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Initiating physical contact

    You don't dance? Balderdash. Go humiliate yourself, dancing skill isn't going to make a difference... Only your inhibitions will. Dancing like an idiot has allowed me to escalate faster than just about anything else in the world. You want hand holding, hugging, kissing, fingering... I routinely go through those 4 in about 5-10 minutes of dancing.

    If you still can't bring yourself to do it, sign up for a dance class. I went to a drop in swing lesson and it seriously changed my life.


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