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    Lightbulb Is this girl stuck up or am I being to soft ?

    I met this girl way back in high school. She was in the popular crowd , but she seem pretty open and nice to everyone? I didn't go to the same school, becaus I got introuble and had to transfer. But there was a church were she watched the Pre-schoolers , so I took this as a chance to start talking to her & volunteered to help out in maintenance. Well as it turns out we could never talk because we were on two different sides of the church and she was never around. But I did run into her a couple times, talked for a bit and got a couple laughs out of her.

    A couple months later I found her on Facebook,( I hate online Game becaus it seems I can't be in charge of the conversation most if the time ), and neg'd her on a couple of her pictures and sent a few messages. That DIDNT lead to anything because she basically ignored my messages , but she didn't follow up on my comments on her pictures but it didn't lead anywhere?

    Then I seen her at a graduation ceremony, but she didn't really give off that good energy when her attention was toward me. She was real friendly with my friend but was what I think "curtsey nice to me". she gave me a little "nice" hug and the three of us took a picture but to me her energy had me feeling akward!

    So I guess what I am trying to ask is if I could flip all of this into something where she will be excited to see me, would want to see me, would want to talk to me? She's a good girl but I think we didn't started off on the right foot? We kind of like the same things but we're so distant at the moment.

    if you have ANY QUESTIONS please feel free to ask! And ANY advise will be taken into high consideration !! Thank you everyone.

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    Default Re: Is this girl stuck up or am I being to soft ?

    What did you guys talk about?

    Did you attract her? Did you dhv?
    Were you an alpha? Did you watch your body language, tone, eye contact, body gestures?
    Did she give IOIs?

    What was her energy like in the graduation, maybe it was your energy?

    Did you at least show some sort of quality/value which will make her remember you even if she doesn't see you for a long time?
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Is this girl stuck up or am I being to soft ?

    Before you can get the truly correct response from other members here you need to come up with more information.

    What is your access to her today? Facebook only? Facebook and number? Occasional interaction at a party + facebook?

    What's your game like with women in general? When did you start learning the game? I noticed you said you used a neg so you have some exposure to running the game.

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    Default Re: Is this girl stuck up or am I being to soft ?

    Wolf24- the first time we met she was giving me IOIs , she was laughing at my jokes , she noticed my cologne and said 'she loved it!!' And lots more ! .. In almost every place I'm in I'm the alpha , I'm the one starting Convos, I'm the one people go to talk to , I was the one serving drinks at a party I first seen her at . I ever started talking to her friends ( old friends of mine , that I talk to here and there ) . I had females hold my stuff in front of her so she knows I'm the alpha hahha. But at the graduation I think I may of have a little bit of a bad energy and body language because , I wasn't really feeling that connection that we had before ? But I'm sure she'll remember me, she brought my name up a couple times in place I wasn't present.

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    Default Re: Is this girl stuck up or am I being to soft ?

    Dave_xzz -- my connection to her would probably instagram , facebook, and the local party's that ou friends would probably have. We kind of have the same friend list since our city is small . & I use the Game as much as I could everyday. I read the book , & I have been following this site since last year this time , but I never replied to threads or wrote post till now.


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