I have tried internet dating, getting girls off of facebook, couchsurfing, many websites. They all suck. Yes, I have gotten a girl and farked her, and sh1tloads of numbers that turned into nothing, but it still sucks. For the amount of time I put in, and the number of phone numbers I got, it is a pathetic return on investment. In addition, I see much hotter girls walking around the city streets, all the internet girls are lesser quality than the real-life girls. I think it is because the internet, by definition is a supplicative, lame, AFC tool. It exists for those who are too afraid to get out there, so they can sit in their little cocoons, their homes, and "approach" women, and then jack off to porn when they don't get laid that night. If you think about and analyze the fundamental undertones, and sorts of people the internet attracts, you will see it is not a good thing.
I have found conquering fears to be one of my biggest things in life, to help me succeed. I feel scared to approach women, not so logically, but when I ponder the idea of walking up to a perfect girl I would love to fark, talking to her out of nowhere, I feel a bit nervous, I start to rationalize "logical" fears as to why I should not approach her such as "what if the other men around me see me getting her, get angry or jealous, and attack me?"
Why would we not get out and approach women? because we live somewhere there are no hot women? I lived in the usa, and at the time, convinced myself that was such, no quality women I wanted were around me, I was too good for them. I came to mexico, and saw the same sort of rationalizing of not cold approaching, and it was at that point that I realized something. Nobody likes cold approaches. They're extremely painful at first, but if you want the hottest girls, there is no way around this, this is a fundamental organization of human society, an emotion shared across all male brethren.
I was thinking about: what could we possibly have to be scared of, from other men, compared to the porn industry? Think of all the girls who do porn, where did they come from? surely they must've been girls who other guys liked in childhood, they must have brothers,uncles and fathers. The fact that the porn industry is not being attacked by crazed losers like the abortion clinics is proof that NOTHING you can possibly do, will lead to serious consequences or someone seeking revenge against you, simply for approaching a girl, getting her number, and having sex with her, consentually. If the guys doing all those DP, gangbang, simulated rape sh1t in porn, are not being attacked by angry losers, we shall not be.
I was thinking, too, why should cold approaches be looked at in a bad way? If cold approaching, that means just living my daily life, doing what I do, going where I go, I will see pretty girls, flirt with them, and get their numbers. I won't need to spend so much time of my day, combing through online dating garbage, scanning girls' profiles for subjects that interest us both. What a farking waste of time, I would rather be researching my investments than researching hot women. This way, I do not go out of my way to approach women, it simply becomes integrated into my persona, my daily activities.
I see hot women everywhere. I don't know about you, and what rocks you hide under, but I bet you do, too, whether you think so or not. Unless you sit at home all day jacking off, if you leave your house, and go to areas where more than one person congregates, you WILL see some hot women worth approaching, who you would be happy farking. If this is truly not your case, then how will online dating help? if the women are so far away, they're never going to come see you, and if you travel to see them, ugh lets not even go there, every possible direction internet dating can head in, is a bad one. If you REALLY have no hot women around you, then move, I'm sorry friend, is it really worth farking your hillbilly neighbor the rest of your life, JUST to keep your grandaddy's farm? I don't know about you, but more than anything else in my life, I want to fark hot women, I do not want money or anything else, I just want to have domain over lots of women I like.
In the spirit of conquering our collective male fears, and getting the hottest women, we must challenge ourselves to ALWAYS approach ALL women in our vicinity. Too many times, I've looked up to see a beauty briskly walk by. Before I can even think of a possible thing to say, she's gone. Thinking, is our death, in this context.
I know I am not an absolute master by any means. I am continually conquering AFC tendencies in myself, which our culture seems to value and teach to us. I have not mastered cold-approaches, and that is where you guys come in. I am going to start in one week: friday, june 5th, 2013. For one month, I shall approach, talk to, and get the number of every hot girl I see. That means on the bus, walking down the street, in the supermarket, walmart, 7-11, everywhere.
This must be done to get the hottest women, because you are an AFC in her eyes, unless you cold approach. There is no other way. Why would you want it to be any different? so we can sit at home on internet dating? That, is not being a PUA, a PUA should be conquering his fears, that is a central part to this whole movement.
If any of you are real PUAs, and you feel like you haven't yet mastered cold-approaches, then join us and state your intent here. State, briefly (less than a paragraph) why you want to join us, and what you want to become after this month is up, also list your general geographic area, and age. I will come on here, before I start next week, and write down all your names in one post so we'll know who is working together here. I do martial arts, and I feel it is much better than working out individually at the gym. While I don't have the money to fly around and see you guys, we can record our experiences here, post all updates, failures, and successes, here, to help us learn from others' mistakes, and to inspire us to continue on our journey.
I want to join, because I want the hottest girls, and lots of them, and I have realized that will never come about unless I master cold-approaches. I want to be at the level where I see women to approach and think "I have too many hot women in my life right now, to get involved with her" and genuinely NOT want to approach her, not out of fear or AFC-ness, but because I have so many women in my life, I'm sick of them. Just like a drug, you grow a tolerance to. That is my goal. I am currently living in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico, and I am an 18 year old american who moved here from the San Francisco Bay area, alone, when I was seventeen.
WHO'S WITH US??