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Thread: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

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    Default How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    I spent a while trying to decide where exactly to post this so if you read it and think it belongs somewhere else let me know.

    I've been talking to this girl for a while. I've already got her attraction and emotional connection. If she were single she would've been mine a while back. But she has a boyfriend. They aren't happy together at all and she has clearly said multiple times that she prefers me and would rather be with me. Only they've been together for two years so she is having a real hard time with letting that go. I've heard them fight and it was bad, he started bawling his eyes out and just being a pitiful mess and she says its a really common occurrence. (like multiple times a week)

    I don't much understand why she can't bring herself to break up with him other than she doesn't want to feel like the last two years have been a complete waste.

    Really what I'm getting down to is how do I give her that last nudge she needs so she will leave him to be with me?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    This is tough. I've had girls break up with their boyfriends for me before but as it turned out, when you finally get what you want you don't want it anymore. Don't be pushy, it shows some extreme neediness and is only going to affirm her decision to stay with her boyfriend. Hang out with her, do what you do that attracts her, and let her work it out that your the better pick. You could also try a jealousy plot. Start talking to a few new girls, and don't be afraid to let her find out (without directly telling her, she'll see right through what your doing). In the same token as the aforementioned, when she sees she may not be able to have what she wants anymore, she'll want it more.
    Last edited by Bballking; 06-29-2013 at 09:47 PM. Reason: Typo

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    Just wait for it to fall apart. You don't want to be the cause of the break up or down the line she will blame you. Not only blame you but she may actually come to resent you.

    As time goes on most people will fondly remember their past relationships unless they were abusive. People tend to forget the fights and disagreements as time goes by or they lessen the affects of those fights in their memories.

    Why take the blame for what is going to happen naturally? Just wait and then be the ALPHA male that games her. She will be looking for comfort after the breakup.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    Thanks for both of your answers I appreciate it. Just waiting patiently is what I had in mind would work best but I figured I might as well see if there was anything else that could be done. Their relationship is one of those that you cannot fathom why they are still together, they make each other miserable and each of their friends have been telling them to break up with each other for months. I hope that by giving her a much better alternative to her current boyfriend (me) that she will see the light and go for it.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    xavier has a boyfriend destroyer method, i think there might be one that someone else put up too, use the search button

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend

    Listen to dave_xxx. He's got the right idea.

    There are two things that keep people in a destructive relationship.

    - Fear of loss

    - Hope for change

    So as long as she doesn't like the idea of him loving someone else and keeps hoping that the next day will be better, she will stay. Just let it happen naturally and don't force anything.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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