Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 7 of 7
  1. #1
    The Professor is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 86, Level: 1
    Level completed: 72%, Points required for next Level: 14
    Overall activity: 3.8%
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Location
    London
    Posts
    14
    Points
    86
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Solo Sarging Problems

    Hey everyone,

    I just joined the forums and as I had to make a post I thought I might as well jump straight in with a question to see what you guys can come up with.

    Here's the scenario, when I'm with my friends I have no problem approaching women and talking to them, with a ranging level of success but when I'm on my own I just don't seem to be able to take that step towards them.

    Even worse, if I manage to actually approach a girl my mind just blanks out.

    And yes the obvious answer is take my friends everywhere with me but I move around a lot and once again I'm in an area of England where I know no-one locally.

    Let's see what the legendary PUA Forums can come up with, having read the game lately I have high expectations from you all!

  2. #2
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Solo Sarging Problems

    Whenever I'm out by myself my focus changes from picking up women, to making new friends.

    When you're approaching with the Mindset of making new friends then it'll give you the social proof you need to approach women. Maybe in the set you opened. So just focus on making friends with everyone and anyone THEN approach women once you look like THE MAN in the place you're in.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

  3. #3
    The Professor is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 86, Level: 1
    Level completed: 72%, Points required for next Level: 14
    Overall activity: 3.8%
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Location
    London
    Posts
    14
    Points
    86
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: Solo Sarging Problems

    So what you're saying is 'own the room,' I like it. I presume you mean lads and ladies right?

    Although I'm guessing I'm not the only one out there that thinks the idea of approaching a group of guys is more intimidating than a group of girls? Any beginners advise on that?

  4. #4
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Solo Sarging Problems

    Actually I think guys are easy. All you have to do is compliment on something unique and just shoot the shit with them. No game. Just talk. Most of the time they're friendly as long as you come in strong enough, but not too strong. Remember, always approach with the same energy level or slightly higher. But that's how it is in the U.S.

    And yes approach EVERYONE. Even the old guy who sits by himself. Just get to know everyone. Everyone has a story to tell. So just make them feel like they are being heard. There's no real techniques to it. Just have fun with it. Like recess.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

  5. #5
    Wolf24's Avatar
    Wolf24 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,917, Level: 26
    Level completed: 17%, Points required for next Level: 83
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Posts
    350
    Points
    1,917
    Level
    26
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts
    Rep Power
    97

    Default Re: Solo Sarging Problems

    I'm also new to solo sarging concept but the reason I like it, is about my friend base. My friends (not wings) usually try to hold me back when I see a set and want to approach.

    They say things like: "Come on man, we're together this night, don't leave us. Besides, what can happen, what will you earn from that?" And blabla.

    That's why I like sarging solo or rather with a wing at least.

    PS: In my country you can't enter many clubs/bars with dude only groups. You need to bring at least one girl to enter those kinds of places. I guess it's a way to prevent lonely AFCs hitting on and creeping out chicks. That's why I have couple of female wings to help me enter those places when I'm out sarging.

    Wolf.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

  6. #6
    Suave Kino's Avatar
    Suave Kino is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 12,701, Level: 73
    Level completed: 63%, Points required for next Level: 149
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Albuquerque, NM
    Posts
    612
    Points
    12,701
    Level
    73
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    542

  7. #7
    The Professor is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 86, Level: 1
    Level completed: 72%, Points required for next Level: 14
    Overall activity: 3.8%
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Location
    London
    Posts
    14
    Points
    86
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: Solo Sarging Problems

    I read through everything you guys have posted and so far you've given me a lot to think about, will have another go this Friday and see if I make any head way.

    While I'm here you have any quick pointers on getting into the zone? Sometimes I'm in a bar I'm feeling the confidence but a lot of the time I just find myself hiding in the corner or leaning against a wall, worst thing is I know I'm doing it but I can't seem to stop myself :/


Similar Threads

  1. Sarging Solo?
    By Gemini in forum General Questions
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 07-16-2012, 05:46 AM
  2. Solo Sarging?
    By pua_wannabe in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 03-12-2012, 10:37 AM
  3. First time solo sarging
    By arod in forum Members Lounge
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 09-21-2011, 08:13 AM
  4. Sarging Solo
    By Charrua89 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 08-19-2011, 10:44 PM
  5. Solo-Sarging
    By Raven in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 12-01-2010, 12:14 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com