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    Default How would this work as a day game opener

    I am on a college campus and I was wondering if this daygame oopener would work. "Hi my name is ____ and I think that you are cute. what is your name?" I thought that this opener would not only show confidence and make her feel god, but it would also be useful in staying out of the friendzone. I worry that it could show too much interest too soon, but I would like to know what you guys think about it. Have any of you guys tried something like it?

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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    I think it could work, I personally want to try that for some time, just couldn't find an "attractive enough" girl in my campus for that opener.

    But, I advise you to be careful. Since college has different social dynamics, if you use that opener more than once you might be discriminated as a "player". That is because colleges are usually too packed up and everyone knows everyone and talks about everything, especially girls.

    PS: My opinion is, that opener should based on a time constraint for higher success rate. Like, use it when running late to a class followed up by a quick n-close. Because if you use it without the time constraint, for example, if you use it on a girl in one of your regular classes, she may think that you were/are checking her out all the time. And she may subconsciously develop thoughts that she has higher value than you, because you were after her at first.

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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    What if I meet a girl by herself who is not doing anything other than reading a book or laptop?

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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    Quote Originally Posted by Sun Devil View Post
    What if I meet a girl by herself who is not doing anything other than reading a book or laptop?
    Book:
    Easy. Basically you can open referring to the book she's reading, tease a bit and then transition to almost any topic you want.

    Laptop:
    Make sure she sees you approaching, if she's too buried in her laptop to see you, sit in front of her so she can glance at you while she's looking at the screen.

    Me: (Approaching like I am stunned by her beauty.) "Oh. My. God. Is that a ****? (Laptop's brand)"

    If you can sell the "appear like you stunned by her hotness" part and open with this one, I'm about sure it gets a huge laugh and a subtle push/pull right at the start. From there it shouldn't be too hard to keep the convo.
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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    Don't worry about having a convo when you first meet a girl.
    Convos are for the rapport stage....
    And you don't want to go into rapport until AFTER you've built curiosity & attraction. (Rapport too soon greatly increases your chances of getting put in the friend zone)

    I would also refrain from complimenting her about her looks. Every guy does that, so you'll just be "another one".

    Instead, be fun, flirty, confident etc.. & playfully tease her.
    Bantering & razzing are sooooo much better!

    Any interaction in the early stages should be light content & just fun, silly stuff.

    Calling her names like "dork, brat, sassy-pants, goofball, etc" work very well.

    One of my most recent playful openers has been getting amazing results: (It's a slight variation of an email / message opener I've used on Match.com & POF)

    "Well, don't you just look like a bucket of sass, wrapped in a spunky package & covered in crazy sauce!!" *then wink & smile.

    You set the tone right away of creating a fun, playful vibe & open the door for lots of bantering & razzing. (And you don't have to worry about "keeping a conversation going".)



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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    Farking christ go out and try it. Try other openers. Say anything and everything and come back and tell us how it went.
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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    "Well, don't you just look like a bucket of sass, wrapped in a spunky package & covered in crazy sauce!!" *then wink & smile.
    If I could make this shit up my game would be infinitely better. Your shit always cracks me up.
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    Default Re: How would this work as a day game opener

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    Farking christ go out and try it. Try other openers. Say anything and everything and come back and tell us how it went.

    Oh my gosh absolutely love this. The most inspiring thing for Pick Up ever. But to break point here for a second wanted to share a few words.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sun Devil View Post
    I am on a college campus and I was wondering if this daygame oopener would work. "Hi my name is ____ and I think that you are cute. what is your name?" I thought that this opener would not only show confidence and make her feel god, but it would also be useful in staying out of the friendzone. I worry that it could show too much interest too soon, but I would like to know what you guys think about it. Have any of you guys tried something like it?
    Umm no don't try it or do. I personally wouldn't because this is a total DLV on yourself, low risk, and basically take a friendzone approach from the get go. How do you create attraction? By being friendly? Well yes in a manner of speaking but hang on. You create attraction by killer openers, good openers, flirty negs, teasing, banter, flirting, kino, her chasing you, you chasing her (not too needy now), you demonstrating high value (DHV), having good inner game (overall game), push-pull, hot & cold, passing sh!t tests, being cool (alpha), etc. The list goes on.

    This is what we call attraction. You will never get there taking a low risk AFC approach. But just to get over the aa hump go out and do it and try to calibrate afterwards. I can pull off plenty of low risk approaches and still calibrate and get some attraction built in the process. I have pulled off the what's up opener endlessly on 6's & 7's but on the 8 or 9's I bring out the big guns.

    If she really makes your blood boil then go for a hopeless romantic opener because girls ping off this stuff like crazy. "Hey I thought you looked amazing so I thought you know I would come get a better look at you." Girls love that jazz (8's-9's). Be aware you have less leway way with the super hot ones so you go in guns blazing. So the answer to your question to can you go in like that? Yes on a 6 or 7 but no on a 8 or 9. The 8 or 9's will blow you out hardcore when you ain't hardcore the 6's or 7's don't give a fark how the heck you go in but the 8's and 9's want a deep connection with a suitor so you gotta be on top of your stuff if you want to create any attraction.

    The law of state transfer is absolutely true. When you open a 6 or 7 with a body rocking opener they think you are full of it. But when you open a body rocking opener on a 8 or 9 man then the set is just humming. When I run a killer opener, well calibrated opener, or a hopeless romantic opener on a 8 or 9 they ping like crazy run kino on me, say I am a hero, grab me and beg me to stay, beg me to be friends with them, start chasing me, etc. But whenever I run a killer opener on a 6 or 7 in a set they are just either offended, don't believe me or bored. I am starting to think the 6 or 7's is the training ground where I get my state up and warm up and the 8's and 9's are for me when I am in state, had a few blow outs, got a few numbers, and already humming ready to go for the body rocking sets or just plain don't care start off pinging 8's and 9's right away and because of the law of state transfer when my state is high the 8 or 9's sense it and just fall all over themselves and fling themselves at me. Don't know how to respond to this normally and I screw it up but once I learn to sufficiently calibrate 8 or 9's flinging themselves at me I will report on it in my field reports and such. I have no way to handle that much attraction yet. It's much like being in your own movie. I look back at all the awesome sets I had and I feel like time was on hold for me going through all that chemistry, attraction, push-pull, hot & cold it's just insane! But the weak half hearted openers have always killed my momentum. You don't want to be half-hearted with the 6's and 7's either or you will lower your state not lift it.


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