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    Default Better another text or going to her workplace?

    I've met this girl something like 5 days ago.

    We talked briefly but nicely and were supposed to meet and exchanged 5 texts, the last one was mine 2 days ago with no reply.

    She works in a mall, in one of those open air stalls selling phone covers/souvenirs and she's there alone, I could easily walk by again without seeming too insisting.

    Would you suggest at this point to go there in a few days in person or to text in a few days... ?

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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Text her or wait a few days and text her( which ever you decide.) but whatever you do I suggest you don't go to her work because it'll be a little stalkerish/creepy since she didn't reply to your text and you just showed up to her work like a dog waiting for a treat. If you do that all your excuses you give her for being at her work would be invalid and she will probably think you're a creep. ( just my opinion though)
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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Hmmm, yes, seems a good point.

    Even if I'd really walk around there by accident it would raise some doubts.

    Any other point of views... ?

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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    On another hand, you can't be expected to avoid this store your whole life, right?

    Go there with another girl
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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    On another hand, you can't be expected to avoid this store your whole life, right?

    Go there with another girl
    Well I almost never go there actually.

    But yeah, that doesn't sound like a bad suggestion..

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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Don't show up at her work that would be creepy. Maybe in a few weeks it would not be creepy but then it could be awkward depending on your response.

    I don't know what I would do, it would depend on her responses in the 5 texts that've been exchanged. I think in general your options are text her again, call her or ignore it completely don't text or call and in a week or 3 go to the mall and "run in to her".
    Personally I wouldn't text her depending on what (the contents of the text) she stopped replying and rather call her although that can be to awkward depending on the amounts of raport, fun and interest you generated.

    EDIT: Moving on is also an option ofcourse.

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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Why don't you text her again.( start a whole new text just to test the water.) she was probably busy. Never give up on your goal man, be persistent
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    Default Re: Better another text or going to her workplace?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    On another hand, you can't be expected to avoid this store your whole life, right?

    Go there with another girl
    Good one, because it sucks that first a girl doesn't text back, and then ON TOP OF THAT you now cannot go to a particular place purely because she chose not to text back.

    Not sure how these types of injustices are considered normal in society.


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