Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 2 of 2
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By mackdaddyjacK

Thread: Need help with girl from work

  1. #1
    Bballking is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,728, Level: 24
    Level completed: 28%, Points required for next Level: 72
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Location
    Michigan
    Posts
    301
    Points
    1,728
    Level
    24
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts
    Rep Power
    87

    Default Need help with girl from work

    I've been talking on and off with a girl that works at the same company as me for a couple weeks now. I have her number and try texting her from time to time but rarely if ever get replied too. However, whenever we see each other at work she seems to be very comfortable talking to me. I probably only see her once a week but the interactions seem fairly solid.

    At first, I imagined that I stuck her in the friend zone and she has done the same to me, I didn't want to cross a work boundary so I thought I'd play it save. However, whenever we talk she faces me directly, jokes, smiles, and fidgets even as if she may be a little nervous or possibly intimidated. If we are doing something, I'll often find that she'll be looking at me for no reason or shortly after someone said something as if I am to reply.

    I thought I had built attraction. I'll neg her from time to time, and never seem overly eager to talk to her. I keep the conversation light and crack quite a few jokes. I have to imagine that she is attracted, BUT she never, or rarely replies to my text messages, and often I'll find her walking right past my office without saying a word to me (and she'll only have to go by maybe 3 times a week). Am I mistaking what I took as some interest for some office courtesy? How do I move this forward?
    Last edited by Bballking; 07-01-2013 at 09:06 PM. Reason: Forgotten detail

  2. #2
    mackdaddyjacK's Avatar
    mackdaddyjacK is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,740, Level: 25
    Level completed: 40%, Points required for next Level: 60
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    No Man's Land
    Posts
    397
    Points
    1,740
    Level
    25
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    95

    Default Re: Need help with girl from work

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    I've been talking on and off with a girl that works at the same company as me for a couple weeks now. I have her number and try texting her from time to time but rarely if ever get replied too. However, whenever we see each other at work she seems to be very comfortable talking to me. I probably only see her once a week but the interactions seem fairly solid.

    At first, I imagined that I stuck her in the friend zone and she has done the same to me, I didn't want to cross a work boundary so I thought I'd play it save. However, whenever we talk she faces me directly, jokes, smiles, and fidgets even as if she may be a little nervous or possibly intimidated. If we are doing something, I'll often find that she'll be looking at me for no reason or shortly after someone said something as if I am to reply.

    I thought I had built attraction. I'll neg her from time to time, and never seem overly eager to talk to her. I keep the conversation light and crack quite a few jokes. I have to imagine that she is attracted, BUT she never, or rarely replies to my text messages, and often I'll find her walking right past my office without saying a word to me (and she'll only have to go by maybe 3 times a week). Am I mistaking what I took as some interest for some office courtesy? How do I move this forward?
    Your texting game needs work simply put. Stop overthinking it. I know how to get girls responding to my texts so much so now they talk to me all day and won't stop texting. I try sending a text in the afternoon, one late afternoon, and one in the evening and usually by the 2nd or 3rd one we got a convo going. My guess is you are only sending her 1 text every couple of days and getting frustrated by the no reply to the 1 text you sent. Like I said try texting her 3 times in one day spread out over several hours, then freeze for 2 days, rinse and repeat and see what happens this is what I do to get convos going. I just need to learn to stop the convos from going on too long is my problem. Keep acting the same way you do in the office and don't bring up the texting around her. Show that you are confident and don't text too much as you will get burnt out and wear her out.


Similar Threads

  1. Girl from Work - Yes or no?
    By peel in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-24-2012, 12:20 AM
  2. Help with girl at work
    By Ed57ve in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 08-30-2012, 03:00 PM
  3. What do I do with a girl from work
    By coloboss in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 10
    Last Thread: 03-29-2012, 10:02 AM
  4. Girl at work.
    By Krayz in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 09-11-2011, 02:59 PM
  5. Girl at work, please help
    By loto in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-28-2010, 12:34 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com