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Thread: What is complimenting in PUA

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    Default What is complimenting in PUA

    How often do you use compliments in a successful PU situation?

    I'm starting to use push/pull, and since I've never really been one to use direct compliments (Beautiful, pretty, etc) its a bit new to me. Call me emotionless How do you frame them, do you even frame them, how often do you use them, and how do you avoid crossing the creepy line?

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    Default Re: What is complimenting in PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by Sleath5 View Post
    How often do you use compliments in a successful PU situation?

    I'm starting to use push/pull, and since I've never really been one to use direct compliments (Beautiful, pretty, etc) its a bit new to me. Call me emotionless How do you frame them, do you even frame them, how often do you use them, and how do you avoid crossing the creepy line?

    Cheers

    Compliment them or don't compliment them your choice. I can pull off game with or without. Many gurus act like complimenting is the killer of attraction but I have switched my complimenting to the HB8-HB9's and stopped complimenting the HB6-HB7's. This is just the acquired skill I have gained over time. I could even challenge myself and do nothing but compliment girls all day or not compliment girls all night won't affect me at all. I have progressed beyond the point of worrying about externals however I have learned complimenting goes very well with HB8's-HB9's but not so well with HB6's-HB7's due to their low self-esteem and their pretending to be all that many times they sense I am full of it if I compliment a 7 and she doesn't know how to take it. But it never gets old to compliment the HB8's-HB9's like I say and this is how many times I calibrate a well timed situational opener. However I am far more focused on gaming a woman than complimenting her. My focus is on the interaction not the attraction.

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    Default Re: What is complimenting in PUA

    I'm usually comfortable commenting on her clothing, accessories or hair. Like: "I like your earrings. It reminds me of blablabla." I don't need to wait for an ioi or something like that because, I saw it, I liked it and I wanted to state it. There is nothing creepy about that.

    Furthermore, it gives love. People become happy when you notice something about their appearance because they usually spend some significant amount of time working on that, before they leave the house. And man, making people feel better about themselves, it's an instant dhv.

    About complimenting on her physique... This time I often wait for a compliment from her or a strong IOI, which indicates that she's probably attracted to me and I'm off the creeper grounds. And after attraction, in my opinion, compliments are essential in escalating and building sexual Tension, unless you overdo it. If you can mix some cockiness too, it's golden.

    There's nothing beta about complimenting. It shows that you're not intimidated of her, not afraid to speak your mind, shows that you're interested, etc.

    You only need to be careful about when you say it and what you say. You shouldn't say something like: "Dam girl your booty is like, off the charts." when you first met her. Or the other way around, you shouldn't say: "Your hair looks nice, ..." while having sex.

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    Default Re: What is complimenting in PUA

    Thanks for this post. I've been pondering the compliments dilemma myself.

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    Default Re: What is complimenting in PUA

    Tiny compliments work great in Push-Pull. You need to give to take away, but keep looks out of it. "You guys seem like fun,... but wed never get along" or something of that effect. Also after a few IOIs you can compliment clothing or "style" like i do, but stay away from "your hot" and stuff like that.

    I use it for damage control. If i know i came off as overconfident or i try to tease and it comes off as being an a-hole, use it almost like an apology. Instead of "Sorry just kidding." let out a quick laugh so they know your joking and say "your fun to talk to ..." and keep it going. If your value is ever higher than hers and she looks uncomfortable, give a compliment as a strong ioi to keep her into you.
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