Re: Asking a girl out by text
Be firm as well. Don't say something like: "Would you wanna go out sometime? Maybe we could do this or that, if you like of course?"
Give her limited options. If she's often busy it's okay to set up 2 different time options.
Remember the main thing is to have fun. So add that fun ingredient to your text. Don't get too serious, otherwise she may sense that the date will be in a serious mood too and that will lead to an auto flake.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.