Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 17
  1. #1
    Mystik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 743, Level: 14
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 57
    Overall activity: 62.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    382
    Points
    743
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    53

    Default How to ask a woman out

    I'm wondering what are the best ways to ask a woman out or get together with a woman. Based on what I have learned it seems to me that you need to be specific with what you want to do. I've even heard that you should say something like "Well, I'm going to the cafe now to get a cup of coffee. Hey you seem cool why don't you join me." The problem with that(which is basically asking her out on the spot)is that she could say something like "no, I have to get going now I have stuff to do" then you possibly look kind of silly by trying to play it too cool." So what works best for you guys? Also, is it best to see if she wants to go on a date first then get her number instead of just trying to get her number first. This way if she shows interest in going out with you you know you will get the right number or know she is interested. If she indicates that she isn't interested then you don't even need to bother asking for her number in which case you just move on to the next girl.

  2. #2
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    It's all situational. Don't play every scenario the same way because they are all different. Taking a girl out on the spot is called an insta-date. Most of the time they say no initially, you just have to know how to work around it. There are a lot of techniques which I'm not willing to dive into right now, but you won't look silly asking for the insta-date if you have confidence. Every PUA has their own style. You have guys who never go for insta-dates and just do short interactions with the n-close. You have guys who always go for the insta-date, and if they don't get it settle for the n-close. It's up to you to find what works and suits your personality. How's your Approach Anxiety? Your confidence doesn't seem to be too high, and you want to start working on that ASAP. Best way to do that is just to start approaching.

    I have made it a habit to always go for the number on someone I'm interested in, no matter how bad the interaction because you never know.

    Prime example: A few weeks back I approached a girl at a grocery store who was working. The store was about to close, and I was one of the only few people in there. She was putting some sh1t away when I spotted her and approached her. To make a long story short, it wasn't a bad interaction, but she wasn't giving many ioi's. When I went for her number at the end, she even told me, "you don't really think we're going to hang out, do you?" My response with the biggest smile on my face, "haha you're so adorable, you keep rejecting my advances on you, when I can clearly see that it's working (bullsh1t cause it didn't look like it was working, I was just being cocky). You're having no effect on me at all." and I started laughing (not the best response, but I was having fun not giving a sh1t). I could then see a slight sparkle in her eye after that. She then said, "whatever" and gave me her number. I stuck out my arms for a hug, and use'd that as an opportunity to take a HUGE risk. I hugged her, and then held her around the waste holding killer eye contact with a deep seductive voice. Her only option was to bust out laughing not really believing what was happening right at the moment. I started laying down the game, and the anime eyes had no choice, but to reveal themselves to me. Setting up a date was easy after that lol.

    I went on a tangent there, but fark it!

  3. #3
    Mystik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 743, Level: 14
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 57
    Overall activity: 62.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    382
    Points
    743
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    53

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    Ok, but how do you set up getting the number? Is it ok to say something like "you seem cool, why don't we continue this conversation some time" and if she says "yes" say something like "ok, let's exchange numbers" and have her put her number in your phone or ask for her phone and call yourself. Is there a better way than that?

  4. #4
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    There is no best way. There is only a good way to deliver it. You can use any of those methods you mentioned, but personally I never type my number in her phone. I've been tryna to test my alpha-ness by saying "give me your number," and I gotta admit, it's different cause I'm not use to talking to people like that. If done in the right frame though can really show off your dominance. MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS THAT YOU'RE NOT JUST GETTING HER NUMBER, AND THAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO MEET UP WITH HER AGAIN. I can't stress that enough. Here's an example, of how I use to go for numbers.

    "I've got to be going now, but want to see you again. We're going to grab a coffee sometime *as I'm taking out my phone*. What's your number?" It's a simple as that. You'll either get the number, get rejected, or get sh1t tested.

  5. #5
    Mystik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 743, Level: 14
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 57
    Overall activity: 62.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    382
    Points
    743
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    53

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    No, I wouldn't type her number in her phone I would type my number in her phone then call my phone but I would make sure she is interested first. Some well known PUA uses this method but I forgot who.

  6. #6
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    No, I wouldn't type her number in her phone I would type my number in her phone then call my phone but I would make sure she is interested first. Some well known PUA uses this method but I forgot who.
    That's what I said. Also, I said it's something that I personally just don't do. There's nothing wrong with it. You can find a well known PUA for any of these techniques... I'm having trouble remembering your purpose.

  7. #7
    Mystik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 743, Level: 14
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 57
    Overall activity: 62.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    382
    Points
    743
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    53

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    Initially, I was wondering the best method or methods for asking a woman out or setting up a date.

  8. #8
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    Initially, I was wondering the best method or methods for asking a woman out or setting up a date.
    Ok. Pretty much, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. You can say anything as long as it's said with the right amount of charm, confidence, and tonality. Work on those and you'll be fine just saying , "Hey, you're actually kind of cool. We're going to hangout in the near future. What's your number?"

    Just go with what you feel the most comfortable saying, as long as it's not needy. "I really like you, and we have such much in common. Would you please hang out with me?"

  9. #9
    Mystik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 743, Level: 14
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 57
    Overall activity: 62.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    382
    Points
    743
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    53

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    If I say "hang out" like you mentioned won't the woman think I'm just looking to hook up and won't her defenses go up? It seems to me that most women want to go on a proper date.

  10. #10
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: How to ask a woman out

    I use to say it all the time and it worked. Intentions are conveyed through much more than just words. I truly believed that hanging out meant meeting up again, and so that's what was conveyed. If you believe that hanging out means hookup, avoid using it because that's what will be conveyed. That's why you got to find what you're most comfortable with saying.


Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. The really controlling woman
    By pickuptranslator in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 01-15-2013, 10:13 PM
  2. Woman DLV Themselves
    By benjam60-2012 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-10-2012, 09:55 PM
  3. how to hit on a woman while she is at work
    By SexualSorcerer333 in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 16
    Last Thread: 07-26-2012, 05:24 PM
  4. Older Woman
    By Trey in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 07-03-2011, 07:29 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com