I hate it when that guy shows up.
You know, that guy? The one who comes out of nowhere and inevitably AMOGs you the second you're interested in a girl. That one whose palm she's in the hand of; she might like you a little, but she really wants to get in the pants of that Daniel Craig-lookalike with the flowing wit and bulging pecs and eternal alpha stance sitting right across from you.
There's only so much value a guy can add to himself. What do you do when you come up against this guy? Just find another set? And what happens if you're going for a LTR and you know you've got competition in the form of this guy?