So here is the story thus far. Over at the local college met this girl in my class. Have had about 5 or 6 classes so far. Got her number two weeks ago. I did this by getting her away from the "class" group by getting her to go to the drink machine. Bought her a water (which she got me back for the next class) and she hugged me being all happy. Touched her on the lower back since some touching was going on then got the number. She told me she was surpised I didn't ask for her number sooner. I didn't say this to her but I got to admit I might have if she didn't leave class early so much to go to work. So, I ask her to go out and do something and she said her schedule is super busy and won't have time until wednesday two weeks later (that wednesday is tomorrow). I told her I don't plan that far ahead but maybe we could work something out.
Pausing the story for a second here, my style is to not ask for numbers if I know I am going to be seeing the girl again somewhere such as the next class. So generally, I will ask them to do something with me and then get the number so I already have a reason in advance to talk to them on the phone. To me, just getting a number for the sake of getting a number is pointless to me unless you feel you will not see them again otherwise.
Back to the story, I text her on the weekend and she tells me she is working on homework and gym. Blah blah blah. I ask her to get some coffee with me and she says she will if she has time. This is a clue to me that something must have gone wrong or maybe she is just legitimately busy.
Fast forward to yesterday. We text a few messages. She tells me she is busy with homework then gym. Blah Blah. I ask her what gym she goes to and tell her I'm looking to take martial arts classes. She tells me they don't offer MA at her gym so I tell her most don't and then ask her in the same text if she would like to get together on her next day off (I know her day off is on Tuesday or Wednesday this week). Then the line goes dead. No response.
I know the rule is do not text back until you get a reply. I will be seeing her later this week in class. I feel I have at least a chance for a comeback (or to get back on track).
Any suggestions? Thoughts? Am I working too much on this one?