Hi guys, I'm currently finding sticking points in my inner game when it comes to actively stopping supplication.
Let me give you an example.. I have an old friend and she always asks me to make her cups of coffee when I go to see her and her BF, they're friends of mine. The problem is, I'm trying my best to not supplicate to women and she seems to be 'getting away with murder'.. I told myself about two months ago that I only do this for her because I've known her for 15 years plus... But then lately I've gotten really fed up with her requests as I think she's getting one up on me and treats me like an ethnic minority.
I've tried ignoring her, refusing her and making trades with her on favours.. ie. you do this for me, then I'll do that for you..
The thing is now she's beginning to congruence test me because she's so used to me giving in and doing things for her.
How do I get round this but still keep my friends?