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    Default The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    This is a concept that most won't understand, but its probably the single greatest thing that took me from great and made me a GOD.

    I'm no tony robinson and this isn't no self help seminar but I will say this if your going out with the external results in mind, your making the game a lot harder than it needs to be. No girl, no vagina, no form of validation is as important as yourself.

    When I go out I'm not looking to entertain the girl. I look to entertain myself. No one is as important as you. And you know wut....fark it and get narcasistic.
    Emotions are contagious, if you are putting good vibes out then put it out right and unabashed. Be loud. Be obnoxious.

    Women are icing on top the cake. Your the sh1t. Your the prize. At the end of the nite you'll choose the girl you find attractive and take her home with you.
    Cause your the alpha and everyone else is just tuna swimming in your wake. You are the hurricane and everything else is just the building your ripping to shreds while you remain unaffected.
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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    ye man. This.

    Loads of my friends think im weird or even gay because I give girls chit, walk away or ignore when i feel, and generally just say WHATEVER I want all the time. If that makes me gay then I'd rather go full homo then filter myself and say what I "should be saying"

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    True, game is for yourself!

    Not sure I'd want to give off an obnoxious vibe though

    But game has definitely filled me with confidence and half the reason why I walk around with a ridiculous ego, I've told plenty of guy mates to read the game as it changed my life.

    You are indeed the prize.

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    @Rooster - you sir are YES!

    @Mr. Bojangles... I've heard that name before... tell me, do you know Snowflake? If so, private message me. I am the architect of "chicken-in-a-basket"
    If not... well then nevermind.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    "Going homo" for it might be taking it a little far This may be me talking without a filter, but I'd rather have a filter than never have any chicks and have to settle for dudes asses. :P

    but yeah, otherwise well said.


    And one more thing...

    I have a friend. He's an a-hole. Everybody says so. Yet, everybody likes him. Why? I can't speak for everybody, but for me, it's because I know when the sh1t hits the fan, he's there for ya. When it REALLY counts, he's not an a-hole, but the rest of the time...he definitely is. Girls love him, they can't help it. The guys ask me, "Is this guy always an a-hole?" And I'm like, "no, once you get to know him...well, he's still an a-hole. but he's our a-hole." He's an a-hole, but he's the kind of a-hole you want to keep around.

    I think that's sort of the point of being obnoxious. If you're going to be obnoxious, be the kind of obnoxious that people like to have around. Be the kind of obnoxious that teases the people in your group, but really drives off the AMOGs and jerks and creepers when you need to. Be the obnoxious hero. People claim they don't like drama, but thats bullsh*t. People don't like the drama that hurts them or pisses them off or makes life harder on them, but people LOVE any kind of drama that doesn't. Obnoxious is always better than boring. But if you take it too far you'll drive people off. Be just the right amount of the right kind of obnoxious.

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    Well, one more "one more thing"...

    A caution about being obnoxious: No matter how cocky/funny you are, you can be the cockiest funniest PUA on the planet...but if you don't know what women want, you're SOL. So study up, compadres.

    I know very well people who have witnessed firsthand big movie stars, maybe not brad pitt, but only a few steps behind, the kind you see on the chick flicks and romantic comedies, the actors that the girls who watch the movies go crazy over, big movie star...and they walk into a regular place, and hit on the HBs, regular working class HBs even, and their pickup gets LAUGHED OFF.

    It's not enough to have everything and believe you're the sh*t.


    Mystery and the other master PUAs who started with magic had it right.

    You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all of the people all of the time.

    Unless you're a magician.

    Why? Because magicians give people what they want. When you want to buy a car you don't want to be fooled, but when you go to a magic show...you'd be damn disappointed if you don't get fooled!

    Now, I'm not saying you should fool women (even if some people seem to think that's what pickup is about). I'm saying you can have all the inner game in the world, be happy around yourself and obnoxious and do whatever you want all the time, but if the people around you aren't getting what they want, too, they won't stick around...or if they do at best they won't be happy.

    So do all that inner game tony robbins sh*it, be a narcissist, go for it. But when you do...remember everyone else. If they get what they want, too, it's all good and you're the obnoxious lovable a-hole hero. But if they don't, you're just the obnoxious a-hole. Remember that.

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    Quote Originally Posted by Magnum View Post
    Well, one more "one more thing"...

    A caution about being obnoxious: No matter how cocky/funny you are, you can be the cockiest funniest PUA on the planet...but if you don't know what women want, you're SOL. So study up, compadres.

    I know very well people who have witnessed firsthand big movie stars, maybe not brad pitt, but only a few steps behind, the kind you see on the chick flicks and romantic comedies, the actors that the girls who watch the movies go crazy over, big movie star...and they walk into a regular place, and hit on the HBs, regular working class HBs even, and their pickup gets LAUGHED OFF.

    It's not enough to have everything and believe you're the sh*t.


    Mystery and the other master PUAs who started with magic had it right.

    You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all of the people all of the time.

    Unless you're a magician.

    Why? Because magicians give people what they want. When you want to buy a car you don't want to be fooled, but when you go to a magic show...you'd be damn disappointed if you don't get fooled!

    Now, I'm not saying you should fool women (even if some people seem to think that's what pickup is about). I'm saying you can have all the inner game in the world, be happy around yourself and obnoxious and do whatever you want all the time, but if the people around you aren't getting what they want, too, they won't stick around...or if they do at best they won't be happy.

    So do all that inner game tony robbins sh*it, be a narcissist, go for it. But when you do...remember everyone else. If they get what they want, too, it's all good and you're the obnoxious lovable a-hole hero. But if they don't, you're just the obnoxious a-hole. Remember that.
    Lol, what I'm saying bro is that when your gaming essentially do what you want without inhibition. Not nessacarily saying be an asshole. Then again if you are worried about being perceived as an asshole then your state is probably too externally based. Try it out.
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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    It's so true. The main post. But how to fully embody the idea? Typically that's the way I tell myself to be. And some nights I can really feel it. Everything just flows so well and I am just there to enjoy myself 100% and suddenly my vibe and slightly loud and obnoxious banter with anyone near me just start to pull girls eyes from everywhere over the course of the night. If there's girls with my group of friends, they all want me that night. Especially if it's the first time we've met.

    I've had girls recognIze this before about me: occasionally I am overwhelmingly hysterical and giddy and funny. Everyone around me cant help but ball their eyes out in pure entertainment. It's such a great feeling. But I'm not always like that! People love that side of me and notice it in particular because it comes in rare form. When it fades, they can expect more so they are intrigued. Some PUAs have to become an interesting guy or think of ways to dhv. For me it just comes naturally. When I'm on point, people recognize my natural intelligence and quick wit and real personality and flavor.

    I'm wondering how to capture this more though. If I was that guy half as much as I am now. Just wow...I would want to go out and just be around beautiful women. I wouldn't want to go out to pick up like I do now. There's a difference.

    Any tips for figuring this out? Maybe try and denote some triggers or pre-RealMe thoughy processes that become the onset for such a day/evening?

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    Default Re: The Game Isnt For Women, Its For Yourself

    I have the same situation as you. I have not developed a way to conjure up that state of mind on demand yet, but I am improving on it. I just try to focus on being in a relaxed state of mind all of the time, and it seems to be helping.

    If anyone has any other ideas I would like to hear them as well
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