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Thread: What to say when you run out of ideas?

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    Default What to say when you run out of ideas?

    I'm having a problem with running out of things to say to a girl while texting.what should I do when I run out of ideas to talk about?

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    Default Re: What to say when you run out of ideas?

    Let the conversation be for a little while. Texting allows greater time gaps then face-to-face interactions. Thus, if it dies out, wait a day or two then initiate again with a fresh new mind set. Ideally you should be looking for a meet up anyway. Don't become her texting buddy. As you feel the conversation spiraling down, set up a date with her.

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    Default Re: What to say when you run out of ideas?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Let the conversation be for a little while. Texting allows greater time gaps then face-to-face interactions. Thus, if it dies out, wait a day or two then initiate again with a fresh new mind set. Ideally you should be looking for a meet up anyway. Don't become her texting buddy.
    I agree with this.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    As you feel the conversation spiraling down, set up a date with her.
    However, I don't agree with this. You should set up a date at the climax point of your convo, when it's the most fun. That way, the girl you're talking to will be high in spirits and almost always respond positively. Don't wait for the convo to die out before you ask for a date. Ask it at the peak point of your texting.
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    Default Re: What to say when you run out of ideas?

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    However, I don't agree with this. You should set up a date at the climax point of your convo, when it's the most fun. That way, the girl you're talking to will be high in spirits and almost always respond positively. Don't wait for the convo to die out before you ask for a date. Ask it at the peak point of your texting.
    Good correction. Believe I was thinking before the conversation spirals down.

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    Default Re: What to say when you run out of ideas?

    If that's the case you're over thinking it and need to go doing something else. Getting girls to text me is not a problem right now but getting them to stop texting me is a huge problem I am having to deal with and finding ways to handle that as well. So in any case I don't run out of ideas to talk about over text either. Just very simply talk about meeting up, hanging out, going out, lead them on, flirt with them while they are acting silly, tell them what I am up to that weekend. This is pretty much the extent of what I talk about over text anymore. I don't talk about them being my girlfriend, me liking them a lot, I just keep it rather simple. Also the texting allows for them to throw me sh!t tests which are a lot of fun over text to think about a comment for hours and think of the wittiest thing I can say. When a texting convo goes bad I have been actually able to flip the script. Fun stuff.

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