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Thread: New Situational Opener

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    Lightbulb New Situational Opener

    I'm probably not the first guy to think of this but I thought it might be helpful for anyone who hasn't heard it. I'll call it the kindle opener.

    So I was sitting at the pool one day and a nice looking girl was sitting near me and reading her tablet. So partially out of curiosity and also cause she was attractive I asked her how she was able to read in the bright sunlight and she showed her kindle and we had a conversation. Since then I tried it on 2 other girls that were fooling with there cell phones and opened them successfully too. This is particularly good for pools but it could work anytime you're outside during the day and a girl is playing with a cell phone or tablet.

    Obviously you don't want to stay on this opener too long cause most girls don't like talking tech but it does break the ice and doesn't make it obvious you're hitting on her.

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    Default Re: New Situational Opener

    That seems solid. Just remember during the daytime you don't need to be as covert about hitting on her. You can be more forward (I'm assuming its daytime because of the light). You can (in good timing) get extra points for being outward about flirting with her during the day. I would even go as bold (with a huge friendly teasing smile) as something like "nice tablet, makes it easier to read in the daytime right? What are you reading? Never hear of it, just thought you looked fun/friendly/cute and wanted to say hello/flirt/introduce myself...." Just remember at the pool you usually see way more skin so keep it cute and less sexual (women tend to get shy if you get sexual, being as they're usually half naked in the equivalent of "underwear").

    Be careful about Kino and stuff at the pool too, again your touching a half naked chick you just met, again different if they were clothed. Must keep it friendlier until you know they like you. Big ioi is taking off their sunglasses to look at you. You can also get IOIs like moving their (bare) legs toward you (think supermodel pose) and hair flipping, rolling over to face you, possibilities are endless. The biggest though is the sunglasses (especially if they take me off and play with the earpiece, biting etc.) and make sure you take off yours to talk (friendlier and more open to show eyes).

    Please report back on if these help. Overall good opener but may even be a bit unnecessary. "What are you reading? Just wanted to flirt" may still be solid here.
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    Default Re: New Situational Opener

    Haven't been out to the pool lately. I tend to use "reading anything good?" as a follow up question a lot of times but I probably wouldn't ask them what they're reading right off the bat cause sometimes they don't want to say or they think it's nosy if you haven't talked before. And last year when I asked the answer usually was "50 shades of grey". I want the conversation to get sexual at some point but not right off the bat.

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    Default Re: New Situational Opener

    well.....why not just admit you find her attractive and get to know her?


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