So just got back from a FB hay day with some girls pinging off the wall that they like cocky/funny, hate bad boys, like nice guys, want buff guys, need successful guys, like nerds, have a thing for guys with healthy social circles. So with that said I thought I was becoming better with women but my last set with an HB10 was nothing but trial and tribulation. Granted I used a HB7 opener on her that was my bad and even though it lingered I never went A-hole Nice Guy on her and should have been doing that from day 1. Like I said about your "aura" to work out, work on being successful in your career, and improving your social circle as a spare project while in the meantime you slowly improve your game.
With that said I think it's time for no more Mr. Nice Guy and time to pull out the "Don Juan, Casa Novas, Ricky Suavos" cards. We know there is an inner fear holding us back from meeting beautiful women that we desire and I think it is finally time to break convention and start pulling the things we want from an interaction. Whether it be a ping, kino move, A-hole nice guy comment, we need to start pulling all the stops. The train stops here not with these HB's. We need to get that oneitis out of our head till we find a GF.
With that said I am going to try something. I got a big couple of weekends coming up and I am going to challenge myself to approach awkwardly if I have to in order to completely kill aa. Screw 3 second rule. Approach instant rule for me. Time to get over this hump.
What's the challenge?
This challenge is for myself for the next two weekends but take it upon yourself if you want. Your challenge should you choose to accept it is to approach instantly (no 3 second rule) upon seeing an HB without a man and regardless of weather, number of HB's in a set (4-5), AA, not in state, any girl you feel an attraction for within reason (not with young kids don't be a homewrecker & don't recommend Hired Guns) approach instantly and think of your best HB7 opener, HB8 opener, HB9 opener, HB10 opener. I think you should open each differently for instance. The challenge is to stick to these class of openers and not get AFC by being afraid to use a heartless opener on a HB10. I was afraid that's why I went in with a low risk HB7 open. Like I been saying high risk high reward. The HB9 opens are very risky but always yield a return for me and the HB10 opens though I have gotten IOI's from are super hard to calibrate. A challenge for instant approach will cause me to push myself to the limit and think on the fly without trying to be weak or back out.
So in my quest here's the openers I am going to be running this weekend along with my new Alpha Male challenge of instant approach.
What's up opener, how's it going opener, conversational openers
Indirect openers & Situational Indirect Openers including NEGS and Ping tests (if girls are going to throw sh!t tests time to throw out ping tests)
Situational Direct Hopeless romantic openers always work best with these love getting those instant pings!
Heartless openers always work best as in go in A-hole Nice Guy Compliment (compliment opener with super hard calibrated NEG) This is what I mean when I say I used a HB7 opener on that HB10. Everytime I ping a 7 on a "What's up?" I am getting ping city but when I tried it last weekend on that HB10 it was a pure raw blow out fest. My greatest challenge in field has always been Socially Savy guys, Buff dudes, and A-holes. This is why I started working out, working on my social skills by running game, and recommend the A-hole Nice Guy approach on HB10's. So off to the big game this weekend let's hope I don't back out on those HB10's. HB10's are my only challenge right now since I haven't successfully N-closed an HB10 before. Too many low risk approaches lately time to go in strong and worry about the aftermath in the aftermath. Will report on this challenge after or during this weekend as weel as next and will make mention to this challenge and how well it worked. Just field testing right now to get my head out of the AFC zone. Take this 2 week challenge for yourself either with me this weekend for the next two weekends or later on this Summer when you plan on going out more or need time to prepare. Will be posting my reports (regardless of outcome) to get feedback and give you guys an update how it went. So take the "Don Juan Approach Challenge" yourself not to be a Nice Guy but a Nice Guy wrapped up in an A-hole (completely unaffected by outcome and totally independant of emotional response or validation). I realized the only way to win with 10's is to fly like a 10 and be completely unphased. But like I said I opened the HB10 with an HB7 open so I was already affected by her while going in! I approached in 3 seconds but hot dang was that AFC. I was depending on an emotional response. And guess what? I didn't get a single emotional ping! That HB10 opener would have pinged her you can count on it. If she's upset calibrate it to calm her down if she's happy throw a flirty NEG to knock her off her happy cloud. Ping tests time to do ping tests.