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Thread: Sliding into friendzone? Ouch!

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    Default Sliding into friendzone? Ouch!

    I've had some fun text/phone convo with a HB8 I've been talking to, but claims she has a set schedule during the week and says her OCD kind of prevents her from changing it. She wants me to meet up with her a club/bar with friends on the weekend. Not really my thing.

    We tried to make weekend plans but last weekend I was busy, this weekend I'm busy, next weekend I'm busy. She then goes to Ibiza for 2 weeks. I said "Well, I'll probably meet an amazing girl by the time you get back", to which she says, "We could always be friends". Not the answer I was hoping for.

    I was going to say "Well, I'm not really after friendship. So that won't work. If you don't want to go on date just say so." but I felt it might be a little AFC.

    What is the deal with girls like this? Should I try a direct approach like above, or something else?

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    Default Re: Sliding into friendzone? Ouch!

    I don't think it necessary to tell her that when she said you could be friends. It's so easy to get out of the friendzone it's not even funny. PLUS you are not truly in the friendzone unless:

    -She vents to you about other guys and asks for advice
    -She tries to hook you up with her friends
    -You spend the night in the same bed and NOTHING HAPPENS

    There's a few others I can't recall. I know this because this was what I used to do ALOT until about Junior year of highschool.

    You're next step? Have you thought about telling her you will meet up with her and then flake since you already know you're busy? It's an attempt to create a little attraction and Tension. It helps to get her to make more of an effort to see you if you pull it off.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Sliding into friendzone? Ouch!

    My phone broke and I couldn't contact her the first time we made plans so I kind of cancelled there.

    I agree that I'm not really in the friendzone, but I'm not into making women into friends. I can't imagine that sort of relationship to be honest.

    I'll stay positive, get a wingman, and meet up with her and friends at a pub somewhere in the future.
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