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    Default Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    I'm currently reading, as advised by Janka, the book "practical female psychology"

    scribd.com/doc/28849140/Practical-Female-Psychology-for-the-Practical-Man

    On the way to that site I found this video that talks a little about the different types of women ect, but that made a good point that a wing of mine actually said about a girlfriend of mine a while ago- "shes an AFC";

    youtube.com/watch?v=RgD0cQLSAXg

    This makes complete sense to me, absolute logic. Many people here probably LOVE the games and the drama and the chase, but I phucking dont- I hate it. I want to find a girl that isn't a slut, doesn't have an unholy past (everyones had sex but be able to count on one hand is reasonable), and generally isn't a mindfuq. For these reasons it makes sense to me that now I want a girlfriend, I need to be gaming, but also looking out for these AFC girls.

    My question is, where do I find these girls!?
    They aren't typically in the clubs, and are encased in protective clans when they are, and I don't tend to run into them in day to day life that much. Where do I find these nice shy types at

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    Shy types are just as confusing as the rest. Don't run there to escape the confusion. Dealing with shy types means you may be running into girls wit social anxiety disorder, autism spectrum disorder, and other things of that nature. I've messed around with girls with social anxiety disorder. They don't expect you to "act normal" or be a certain way any less than the normal girls,, and don't think you will get any sympathy from others with any type of mental or physiological disorders even if you have any disorder yourself. Another thing about women on the autism spectrum is that many of them are "asexual" or "aromantic," meaning that they have no desire whatsoever for romantic relationships or sex. I learned this from women in the autism community. They are actually harder to game than normal girls, and even I don't get them, which is ironic since I am on the autism spectrum. These types of women are also the types who seem shy, friendly, and sweet and naturally act in ways that lead you to believe that they're interested when they are not. I've seen some of these girls discussing how they hate when guys always feel like they're coming on to them just because they are so quiet, sweet, giggly and smiley all the time and tend to be very nice people in general. When they send flirty signals they don't even realize that they are doing it because many women on the autism spectrum or who have social phobia don't have the social skills to know how to flirt (since autism directly affects a person's social skills...).

    I used to be drawn to the nice quiet shy types who seemed innocent and sweet. Then I discovered that the same amount of work is required to get them, and probably even more. They also go for the bad boys, too.

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Konnect Life View Post
    Shy types are just as confusing as the rest. Don't run there to escape the confusion. Dealing with shy types means you may be running into girls wit social anxiety disorder, autism spectrum disorder, and other things of that nature. I've messed around with girls with social anxiety disorder. They don't expect you to "act normal" or be a certain way any less than the normal girls,, and don't think you will get any sympathy from others with any type of mental or physiological disorders even if you have any disorder yourself. Another thing about women on the autism spectrum is that many of them are "asexual" or "aromantic," meaning that they have no desire whatsoever for romantic relationships or sex. I learned this from women in the autism community. They are actually harder to game than normal girls, and even I don't get them, which is ironic since I am on the autism spectrum. These types of women are also the types who seem shy, friendly, and sweet and naturally act in ways that lead you to believe that they're interested when they are not. I've seen some of these girls discussing how they hate when guys always feel like they're coming on to them just because they are so quiet, sweet, giggly and smiley all the time and tend to be very nice people in general. When they send flirty signals they don't even realize that they are doing it because many women on the autism spectrum or who have social phobia don't have the social skills to know how to flirt (since autism directly affects a person's social skills...).

    I used to be drawn to the nice quiet shy types who seemed innocent and sweet. Then I discovered that the same amount of work is required to get them, and probably even more. They also go for the bad boys, too.
    Chances are if they have social anxiety disorder, or autism spectrum disorder, your not going to see them out, practically ever. These are both socially debilitating disorders and cause the people that have them to avoid social situations at most or all costs. Even if you did run into them to game them, they'd most likely be worried about their own image so much they wouldn't register much of anything you said. The important thing here would be making them feel comfortable as quickly as possible. Which most likely isn't going to happen for them in the middle of the grocery or clothing store.

    Though that approach could probably swing with a shy girl who doesn't suffer a social disorder. Again, it would probably require mostly comfort after a little attraction. Girls learn from a very young age that guys want only one thing from them. If the girl doesn't go out and experience the social power she has in controlling who she sleeps with, she'll most likely believe that any direct approach is only a shot at farking her (in which case she's probably right, but we don't want her to know that). If she's shy she may not know how to really tell the difference.

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    Oh, I guess to answer the original question, get out more! Go where people tend to go often. It's summer, check out the beach, the ice cream shops, downtown. Expand your social circle. Soon, you'll find that shy girl encased in the group but somebody will be introducing you, so you'll have a warm approach already set. Honestly, you will probably have to get lucky to run into them otherwise if they don't get out much.

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    Where do you find AFC girls?

    Just wait outside of Jenny Craig. You can sarge as many of them as you want or better yet, let them sarge you.

    To get QUALITY your game has to be QUALITY. Sorry to be blunt and honest but I am just helping you past this. The truth hurts for a bit but a lie told to you will wound you over and over again for the rest of your life.

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    Just cause she doesn't have lots of sex doesn't mean she hasn't done many other sexual things that doesn't include penetration. You have to remember that. You might go looking for that AFC girl and end up finding a girl that has the qualities that you don't want.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Where to find AFC GIRLS!!

    hah strong quote "(in which case she's probably right, but we don't want her to know that)"

    nope im not autistic or anything, I'm thinking back to one girl I got with a while back that was shy- but I will admit she was so weird. Thats pretty much what made me ditch her.

    Maybe AFC is the wrong word. Im probably going to get flamed for saying this, but when I get a girlfriend, I want to be able to find a genuine non slut! Ive seen firsthand how girls can "roleplay" into what kind of girl you want them to be, and I know that girls will always say one thing and do another. But I've seen them man, they wear cardigans and don't stare at you from behind their boyfriend. I want me one of those


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