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    lololol is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Just met someone new - how can I avoid friendzone

    Hey guys,

    I first got into the PUA world about a year or two ago with reasonable success (got a steady girlfriend) but I've been out of the game for about a year now (messy breakup, job problems etc etc).

    However, I met a girl like a week ago randomly at a cafe with no real intention of "picking her up" or anything I just thought she was cute and decided to drum up a conversation.

    We talked for about 40 mins just general stuff (work, school etcs etcs) but me running almost no game whatsoever I might as well have been discussing things with a guy. Got her number we texted a few times (mainly me asking her random questions that I want her opinion on and her replying and continuing from there).

    We met up the other day in another cafe had another boring normal conversation for like 30 mins and I legitimately had to leave because something came up so I left.

    Now I'm thinking of taking her to the movies and maybe grabbing a bite to eat afterwards, only thing with that is if we don't go to eat we won't get much time to talk (since we've been to cafes twice I wanna change the scenery up a little bit) but I have two problems.

    First of all, like I said I'm very very rusty so I'm not sure at all how to first keep conversation flowing, convey my interest and avoid the friendzone, or even general flirting so I would like just a few pointers that I can keep in mind. Secondly, I recently moved abroad and my language skills aren't great so a lot of the things I would normally say to flirt in English will be much harder for me to convey and may get lost in translation. (her English is okay but not great). So just general pointers would be nice please thanks

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    Default Re: Just met someone new - how can I avoid friendzone

    Tl:dnr. Be man to women. Not women to women. Be willing to get shot down by showing your a sexual human being. Go for kisses early, be physical, want and pursue sex.
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    Default Re: Just met someone new - how can I avoid friendzone

    Easiest way not to get friendzoned is to make it clear you're not looking for a friend.

    Kino is a huge part of this. You should be touching the person soon after you start talking and all through the interaction. And confidently - no pussy, hesitant touches because she will feel it.

    Physical presence is a huge way to avoid friendzoning. As for the stuff you say - just make sure you push. If you always agree/are always nice/etc you'll just end up being her emotional tampon. Push a little. It's not about her, it's about you too.


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