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    I think you are handling it perfectly.. look at her texts. She is super forward and trying to win your affection. She WILL text you again. Maybe not for a few days. But she will. She may wait until Friday night after drinking or whatever.

    The point is, you set expectations with her that you don't put up with second class behavior. You may lose her, but still you ALSO set expectations with your self that you won't put up with people like that.

    Effectively you set the bar higher for yourself on a VERY important part of a relationship which is trust, which is an amazing thing that very few men do.

    I predict she will text you back and you can then engage in the conversation re-inforcing that you don't put up with liars or second class behavior. Don't over do it, but be firm. Remember this gal cheated on you while engaged... lying is CERTAINLY in her back of tricks. She may not be able to change so you be sure you are strong enough to move on... and when you do, you will expose yourself to MUCH better women.

    Good job man.

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    Nice work, JStout. You're on the right track, to many better, and happier relationships.

    I just had a similar experience. It's still possible that the woman will text me back later, and be sorry, but in the meantime, I am not going to lose any sleep over her. That's what you have to do.

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    Default ***UPDATE & Knowledge Applied!***

    Thanks bro! I know and I concur 100%. In fact she just hit me up with a song to listen to..."The Truth" by Jason Aldean....sounds like my silence and straight-forward approach is getting to her. I never replied back to her btw...I want her to keep sweatin'...

    Oh, in the interim, I have a work-out date Thursday evening with an MMA ring-girl (hot!) from Atlanta that I met Sunday at a sports bar! I approached her and an older friend as soon as they made eye contact with me and turned and looked at each other and smiled. When they looked back at me the hot one was smiling so I smiled right back at her. I immediately got up from the bar (I was sitting by myself waiting on my buddy to get there) and walked straight to their table. I said, "You two look like too much fun for me to be sitting at the bar by myself!" as I introduced myself to the older less attractive one first. Then I proceeded to do the same to the hottie. I cut up with them about the teams they were there to watch and before you know it the little hottie looked at me and said to me, "You have to most beautiful smile..." gave me a few physical touches and the rest is history. My buddy got there and started macking on the older chick (they exchanged numbers too btw) and at then end of the night I closed with her number, hug and a kiss! Then I texted her with a funny text 10 minutes after she left the bar. Yesterday (Monday) we exchanged a few texts throughout the day and by the end of the day I confirmed a workout date (she's a gym rat like me) and maybe a visit to my hot tub for a relaxing night cap!

    If you want the details let me know b/c I applied several tactics (along with good discernment) to get good results. It's a euphoric feeling when you apply what you know that works for others!

    They say "knowledge is power" but I disagree -- "Knowledge in ACTION is POWER"! And I ain't kidding, this girl is smoking hot!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JStout View Post
    Thanks bro! I know and I concur 100%. In fact she just hit me up with a song to listen to..."The Truth" by Jason Aldean....sounds like my silence and straight-forward approach is getting to her. I never replied back to her btw...I want her to keep sweatin'...

    Oh, in the interim, I have a work-out date Thursday evening with an MMA ring-girl (hot!) from Atlanta that I met Sunday at a sports bar! I approached her and an older friend as soon as they made eye contact with me and turned and looked at each other and smiled. When they looked back at me the hot one was smiling so I smiled right back at her. I immediately got up from the bar (I was sitting by myself waiting on my buddy to get there) and walked straight to their table. I said, "You two look like too much fun for me to be sitting at the bar by myself!" as I introduced myself to the older less attractive one first. Then I proceeded to do the same to the hottie. I cut up with them about the teams they were there to watch and before you know it the little hottie looked at me and said to me, "You have to most beautiful smile..." gave me a few physical touches and the rest is history. My buddy got there and started macking on the older chick (they exchanged numbers too btw) and at then end of the night I closed with her number, hug and a kiss! Then I texted her with a funny text 10 minutes after she left the bar. Yesterday (Monday) we exchanged a few texts throughout the day and by the end of the day I confirmed a workout date (she's a gym rat like me) and maybe a visit to my hot tub for a relaxing night cap!

    If you want the details let me know b/c I applied several tactics (along with good discernment) to get good results. It's a euphoric feeling when you apply what you know that works for others!

    They say "knowledge is power" but I disagree -- "Knowledge in ACTION is POWER"! And I ain't kidding, this girl is smoking hot!
    Congrats dude! Glad to hear back from you with great results! I actually am interested in how it worked out even though I'm just a college dude. Too much knowledge can't hurt right?

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    Now isn't this more fun than waiting around and stalking a girl who lies and cheats on you?

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    Why hell ya! Then I get to high-five all you guys in the locker room afterwards too! Thanks for the support. Honestly, this forum has made a big difference for me, my attitude and my outlook in just one week. Thanks again!


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