I'm new to the forum and am excited to have found it! But I do have a question.
I'm a divorced father of a four year-old girl and consider myself to be an alpha male. I usually have good luck scoring hotties that are a 7-9, and the occasional 10 when I've got my wing man. However, I have a on/off relationship of almost two years with a girl I was engaged to. I usually land hotter chicks than her but something mysterious about her keeps me coming back to her for the occasional hook-up whenever she calls (not to mention the sex is incredible). I still care a great deal about her and she knows it. Hence, making my 'alpha male' posture not so alpha when it comes to her. Just the opposite of what I want. I know she's seeing other people but she's adamant she's not trying to play me and still loves me and tells me "I am her soulmate". I don't even ask -- I obviously don't want her to know I still care so much b/c she cheated on me last year that's why we are no longer engaged.
This past Monday, she asked me to meet her after work. I agreed. Then a later text came that said, "I probably have to take my son to cub scouts tonight. His father is working late and cannot take him. I will let you know in an hour." About two hours later she texted me, "Gotta take him. Do you want me to text you when I get home? I AM SO SORRY!!!" My reply was, " Sure. Don't sweat it. Your son is much more important." This was at 6pm. Cub Scouts started at 7pm.
So, I found my ass sitting at home watching Monday Night Football waiting for her text. I usually have great self-control and discernment but at 10:15pm when no text arrived I got more suspicious. I drove to her house and sitting in her driveway was a red pickup with her and some dude in it. I wish I could say that I was "pro-active" instead of "reactive" but I wasn't. I walked to her side of the truck and she and the dude looked straight ahead for about a minute never acknowledging me. Finally, she looked my way and I commented, "Soooo, Cub Scout Den meetings last a lot later than they did when I was a kid...AND, they have a shuttle service these days too, unh? Impressive!" After that, I threatened to kick the guys ass, called her a lying piece of s*#t who's only good attribute is her willingness to f@*k, etc., etc...." (The pansy ass just sat in his truck, btw.)
I left kicking myself in the ass for not having the self control to maintain Alpha Male status. Today is Friday and I have not contacted her nor heard from her -- until 10 minutes ago, that is. She just sent me a text that says, "U think u know but you have no idea"...
#1-What should I really have done after confronting her with the lie and with the guy?
#2-What should I do now? Should I respond? If so, how? I do care about her but I want her to BEG to see me again.
Thanks in advance. I hope to hear a reply soon.