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    Default Street Approaching Question

    I really have a huge problem with stopping girls in the street.

    Whenever I try, i usually try something indirect e.g. asking for directions, I usually fail to stop them.

    I'm thinking of going direct now, because I feel that's a bit cliche.

    Anyway,

    I was wondering, if a girl is coming towards you. Is it a good idea to just stop, make eye contact(either before or after stopping) and when she's a few feet away, say your opener?
    or do you continue moving, get in very close proximity then say the opener?

    My logic is if she sees you and she's sort of expecting it, it makes it less likely for her to walk away as opposed to getting close and forcing a lot of words in a short period of time to someone who is laser focused on going wherever they're going.

    How do you guys do street approaches? Because to me, that's one of life's greatest mysteries lol

    P.S. How much smiling do you do during these approaches? My default facial expression looks like I'm pissed off though I may be thinking of bunnies and butterflies. so I've tried to smile a bit more but then that makes me feel like I look fake. I don't know.

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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Street Approaching Question

    day game is fun because you can make it known right away that your hitting in her. At night that comes across as kinda sleazy but if you smile and are friendly during the day it's bold and strong. If your walking towards a girl make sure you put a hand out or step kind of in her path so she doesn't just walk by. Say ANYTHING. really don't over think it. A personal favorite is (with my watch showing and cell phone in my hand) "hey, do u know what time it is." She might look confused because you KNOW the time. Then I'll smile and laugh and say something along the lines of "I just thought your cute and wanted to say hi....."

    The key is FRIENDLY. Replace "cute" with "sexy" and your TOAST. That's creepy. Also, make sure your loud enough and close enough that she has to stop and talk, but you don't want to be super imposing. If you can get her to stop and turn around shell forget where she was going and take extra time with you.

    Women aren't usually hit on during the day so Bitch Shield shouldn't be up. U can also do that at grocery store or in line anywhere (malls are great). Just say "hey you look like fun" or give a small quick opener and get right to teasing and flirting.
    --theBOB--

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    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    "hey, do u know what time it is." She might look confused because you KNOW the time. Then I'll smile and laugh and say something along the lines of "I just thought you cte and wanted to say hi....."
    If you want to be Direct with a woman, you need to be Direct right from the start. There's no need to use a 'buffer' such as asking the time before you let her know you find her attractive.

    By using 'buffers', you weaken the approach and come across as insincere and phony.

    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    The key is FRIENDLY.
    Whilst a guy certainly should project a certain 'friendliness' (as in down to earth and non creepy) about himself, the real key if you want to be successful with women in a romantic or sexual manner is to be SEXUAL, not just 'friendly'.

    You have to be able to get women revved up sexually if you want to be seen as more than a plantonic friend or entertaining guy.

    One of the problems with pickup artist techniques and routines is that they cause women to see you as more of an 'entertaining', but not sexual, kind of guy.

    What I've personally found to be more effective is to be Direct verbally and intergrate erotic sexual/dirty talk into the conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    Replace "cute" with "sexy" and your TOAST. That's creepy.
    This really is not true. A lot of PUA guys mistakenly believe that being too sexual = 'creepy'.

    Actually, if you are coming across as 'creepy' to women, that has nothing to do with being sexual, but rather someting about your body language, tone of voice, dress sense and general demeanour is causing you to be perceived as creepy.

    Being sexual is NOT synonymous with being 'creepy'.

    There is a way to make your sexual intentions known right away and to establish a sexual dynamic right from the start without ever being perceived as 'creepy'.

    I never use adjectives such as 'cute' when I compliment women. 'Cute' is what I might describe my dog or cat as....but for a women I'm sexually attracted to, hell no. I always make my adjectives more sexual than that. I use words like 'sexy, 'attractive' (and many others) all the time and have personally found them to be highly effective.

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    Default Re: Street Approaching Question

    CambellDaygame - YouTube

    Here's some of my infield. Bro you will see as you go out you will try anything and everything. Say anything you want. KEYS ARE: Strong unwavering lazer eye contact, friendly self amused smile, strong alpha voice tonality. Dont yell but be sure you are heard. You can run after her I often do but now I just make them come to me. But try everything. Try direct, indirect. The field has the answers!
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.


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