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Thread: Brainstorming Openers

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    Default Brainstorming Openers

    I will be using this thread to jot some random openers down ... just for brainstorming purposes ... I will test some and some of them I won't ... I encourage anybody to just pick and chose any openers provided in this thread and Field Test them ... would love to hear your feedback since I probably won't be field testing all of them
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    Simple Yet Effective Opinion Openers

    real quick ... I have to go in a sec:

    1) what movies do you like better ... horror or comedy?

    2) how do you feel about haunted houses?

    3) do you believe in karma?

    .... and then ...

    1) interesting ... but don't you find horror movies on a date so cliche?

    2) a friend of mine invited me to go to a haunted house? ... and I am thinking about taking a lady friend ... but not sure yet?

    3) I was having this debate with someone ... and she said ... "couldn't life just be a bunch of random events ... and we chose to interpret things in ways to give it more meaning?"

    ... and that's good enough ... stack forward into A2!
    Girl: "douchebag!"

    Boy: "a douchebag is a hygienic product ... so I take that as a compliment "

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    Quote Originally Posted by Cheef View Post
    Simple Yet Effective Opinion Openers

    real quick ... I have to go in a sec:

    2) how do you feel about haunted houses?

    3) do you believe in karma?

    .... and then ...

    2) a friend of mine invited me to go to a haunted house? ... and I am thinking about taking a lady friend ... but not sure yet?

    3) I was having this debate with someone ... and she said ... "couldn't life just be a bunch of random events ... and we chose to interpret things in ways to give it more meaning?"

    ... and that's good enough ... stack forward into A2!
    IMO 2 and 3 are ok, my follow ups would be something like:

    2)Have you ever been in haunted house?
    ->This one time I was at abandoned house with my friends and we found skeleton from the closet (or some other stupid shit)
    3)Do you believe in karma?
    ->cause my week was shit but then i bumped into you
    ->cause you never know what happened to me this week [insert cool story about my interesting life with lot of dlv´s]

    I mean these could work better for me.
    Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
    understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
    But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
    recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before
    you and how fabulous you really looked….

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    You're forgetting the simplest and best opener of all;

    "Hi! You looked cute and I just had to meet you. I'm Lunchbox. What's your name?"

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    TPix - good variations I would definitely encourage everyone to tailor openers to their own style

    Lunchbox - I see you like the direct approach ... I'll go direct from time to time ... I wouldn't say one is better or worse ... It's just a different strategy

    I tested the Haunted House opener ... and it hooked very easy ... as expected ... I think I can say almost anything and hook ... hooking is pretty simple ... but those openers bore me ... so I probably won't use any of them

    The next one I am thinking about field testing is a Force Frame Opener ... the idea comes from "Lovesystems Routines Manuel Vol 2"

    so maybe something like ....

    "you know what ... this place is awesome ... I am having so much fun! ... and everyone I meet is cool as hell! ... (smile) ... are you having fun?"

    she responds ... "GREAT!" ... and stack forward!
    Girl: "douchebag!"

    Boy: "a douchebag is a hygienic product ... so I take that as a compliment "

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    another one from "Lovesystems Routines Manuel Vol 2"

    Who do people tell you, that you look like? ... Like what Celebrity?

    (she responds)

    no ... I'm actually thinking of someone else ... (hmm "thinking") ... you know what! ... I am actually not thinking of a celebrity ... you look like this girl I met working at the gas station near my house

    ... stack forward from there
    Girl: "douchebag!"

    Boy: "a douchebag is a hygienic product ... so I take that as a compliment "

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    Hey buddy, heres my club opener, I am against ROUTINE things because they come off as phony and not genuine, so I like to go off the cuff kinda things. One thing I do that is sort of a routine is when I go dancing. Yes, Im from Texas and when you go to a country bar to dance or theres a concert, we two step. This isn't booty dancing and grinding, or standing in one spot shaking around. This is an actual dance, on a dance floor. So really the opening is already done for you, the guys go to the club to dance, and the girls come because they want to dance. Therefore, you approach the girl, or girl and her friend, or group of 1000 people, it doesn't matter, 9 times out of ten you ask them to dance they say yes. So once they are on the dance floor with me I introduce myself and ask things and poke fun to get her to blush and laugh, blah blah, whatever your style is, and when the song is over I pull my phone out as we are walking off the dance floor and say hey put your number in here so we can talk again, and bam, name and number inputted by her. If im in a really great mood and a little tipsy I will get 5 or more numbers in a night

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    nice PUcowboy ... I am a fan of simplicity ... I actually haven't used one routine in the passed year ... this is something new I am playing around with

    sounds like good game ... very traditional and simple
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    thanks man, yeah I like to go dancing because like I said, girls don't have their defences up because that is exactly what they came there to do, dance and (subconsciously meet dudes) haha

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Openers

    There is one opener/close me and my wing have tried 4/5 times so far and its worked around 3. we are still working on it. any advice on improving it is more then welcome. we sit in a club/bar or where ever eventually walk over to a group of people next to the target/targets and pull off some card tricks. grab the target/targets attention (hopefully) when we notice they are watching we move back and invite them into the group. continue with a few tricks simple ones but effective. everybody is talking at this point. drop a bit humor and a few negs in there. then for our last trick we tell the target to pick a card. miss her out picking a card on any other trick. hand her a sharpie tell her to write her number and initials onto the card and place it back in the deck. pop the deck into a pocket tell her something amazing will happen later in the night. talk enough for to forget about what she has done. walk away continue your night and text/ring her when your ready. if she answers just say i told you so. there is once one women never answered and the second one told me exactly where to go. the others i took on dates and took them home. i know this seems outrageous but im new and don't want to adopt too many styles only learn to better myself


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