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    Default Brainstorming Attraction Material

    I will be using this thread to jot some ideas for attraction material down ... just for brainstorming purposes ... I will test some and some of them I won't ... I encourage anybody to just pick and chose any A2 pieces provided in this thread and Field Test them ... would love to hear your feedback since I probably won't be field testing all of them
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    A little story (may tweak it in field)

    - I am actually not from here ... I moved here about a year ago ...

    - I grew up in Virginia I have been there for 12 years
    - all my friends, girlfriends, and family were there ... my memories and experiences ... my childhood ... so of course it was tough to leave
    - the last few years I've been wanting to move ... and expand my opportunities in a different city
    - so I packed up and moved to South Carolina ... even tho I didn't know anyone here ... I managed to get settled in ... and things have been going perfectly since
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    Openers should also catch the woman attention more, not many women may be interested in why you moved, etc.

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    this thread is actually not for openers ... but A2 pieces ... I have another thread for openers
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    hmm am more on the part why you stated you moved etc.

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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    not sure if I will even keep that routine ... but it doesn't hurt ... I may replace it with other ones as I get new ideas which I will post here ...

    but that was just what I thought of at the moment ... the main points would be

    "all my friends, girlfriends, and family were there ... my memories and experiences" - social proof - Family Oriented

    "my childhood ... so of course it was tough to leave ... the last few years I've been wanting to move ... and expand my opportunities in a different city ... so I packed up and moved to South Carolina ... even tho I didn't know anyone here ... I managed to get settled in ... and things have been going perfectly since" - Successful Risk Taker - Ambitious - Industriousness

    so it's just a quick story ... to flip some attraction switches
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    I understand Hard Rock's confusion. I really don't get where you're going at. Are you trying to Field Test routines or general processes? Because right now it sounds like you are just working with routines.

    By the looks of what you are doing, your doing something like an indirect dhv. Not a bad thing at all, but as good ol' rocky said, not everybody is going to be interested in that. Thus, I would focus less on creating a mechanical routine and more on creating a general formula for successful attraction.

    I personally believe that the key to a successful interaction involves a balance of the opposites. You do the work in the conversation, and she does some. You generate interest and she generates some. Of course, in the beginning of every interaction you're going to have trouble getting her to do that, but once you say the right words and get the conversation moving well enough, then it is possible to create an equal balance towards attraction.
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    thanks and I definitely understand where both of you are coming from ... I have actually been gaming for the passed 8 months or so without any routines at all ... I just followed a structure ... to get through attraction, qualification, into comfort ... and so on ... I think that's what you mean by creating a "general formula" swagman ... so I definitely understand where you are coming from ... both of you for that matter ... since I would definitely agree that where I moved from may not be interesting to everyone ... or it just may with the correct delivery ... idk ... I've told people where I am from before ...

    but to clarify on any confusion as best as I can ... and in the most simple terms I know how to put this ... this thread is indeed just for me to brainstorm ideas for attraction material ... and this was my first idea ... may not necessarily be my best ... my best could come in the future ... and it is exactly just field testing some routines as you said Swagman ... of course what you say is only 20% of your game ... if not even less ...

    but this thread is really just about that 20% ... just some random brainstorm ideas for A2 pieces ... and anybody is welcome to throw any input in ... on some A2 pieces they may want to share

    as far as the rest of the game ... "the other 80%" ... I probably won't discuss it so much in this particular thread ...

    I hope that made sense?

    and I definitely appreciate you guy's input ... I will not disregard the fact that it may not be the best A2 piece in the world ... but it's just a random "brainstormed" idea ... and I'll take it from there ...

    let me go ahead and ask you guys this ... so the purpose of that routine is to embed some dhv's and flip attraction switches ... would you say that ... that is accomplished in that routine ... and if not what insight do you guys have on flipping attraction switches??
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    Find the attraction switch you want and flip it!

    Talk about something you didn't think you would get used to and how it turned out easy (funny story)- adaptability
    How you miss your little sister and tell a story about her that's funny- protector of loved ones/compassion
    What you moved for and your big (think huge) plans- ambition

    The background info you gave has potential, but not until you do something with it.
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    Default Re: Brainstorming Attraction Material

    cool thanks theBOB ...

    I'm thinking going into to much depth could be more of a comfort building routine since it would be longer and require more investment then early on in A2 ... what are your thoughts?

    besides I figure by not explaining everything you leave open loops ... which could allow more in depth things that you mentioned to be brought up again in Isolation

    so during A2 ... just throw a a little bit out ... and stack into other attraction pieces
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