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Thread: Single girl at the bar......

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    Default Single girl at the bar......

    Well, I move to Philly about a year ago, I know people, have an awesome wingman (who lives outside of the city which sucks) and have no problem going out by myself. Here's the thing though, I'm still in the process of learning the game. Confidence, even talking (still working on negging...) to women is easy for me, but I'm trying to refine myself (which is why I'm here) instead of bull in the china shop.

    What I'm curious about though is, what are some of the best methods for approaching someone at the bar by themselves. I know the drink thing is played, but I don't know how I would begin to approach someone in these situations. It's like, if they are there alone, aren't they there to be alone. I know, sounds silly and I'm in my head on it, but just curious how other people have approached.

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    Default Re: Single girl at the bar......

    Nice man. I'm across the bridge in Jersey.

    I think what would help you would be disqualifying yourself right after the opener in some way. Most people are willing to talk as long as you come in with the same energy level as them or slightly higher. You could casually mention your gay (I've done this once. It's funny) or mention how you only date Asian/black/white/Hispanic women (whatever she is not) so she can let down her guard a bit. Start with an opinion opener along with the root and time constraint since opinion openers are neutral and don't really lower or raise your value.
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    Default Re: Single girl at the bar......

    What bar in heaven do you go to that has single women alone? That's a "problem" I would LOVE to find...

    Count drinks. If theirs two jts a date, three she's with two friends. One and I assume she's waiting for a boyfriend (girls usually get ready and arrive together). If theirs one single girl alone, please message me the address of that bar. Shit NEVER happens.

    And I'm from North Jersey dude.
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    Default Re: Single girl at the bar......

    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    What bar in heaven do you go to that has single women alone? That's a "problem" I would LOVE to find...
    I was coming in here to post exactly that..lol
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