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    Cool Where to go from here... hmm...

    Broke on through to the confident side, finally. So my template for success has been set, however I'm still shooting in the dark as far as the little tricks go and the decisions.
    Heres the story...

    There's this girl, HB8 and really cool. I can tell she's intellectual, a little freaky and a total babe. From what I've gathered she's into nature and the outdoors; go figure so am I (No really).
    We've met at my friends parties a few times, I earned some brownie points with my Guitar, got a few connections made and her gaze was in my direction most the night. On the outside, I played it cool and every so slightly pulled away with body language so to reel her in. It worked.

    Problem is I lost my focus, ended up getting hammered and didn't get her number. I was going to add her on facebook, but is hardly on so screw that.

    Should I... Wait for the next party, build rapport, get the number then ask for the date a few days after?
    My concern with that is, I'm on fire right now and I gotta keep the coals burnin' ya know?

    Any critique, ideas and critosysms(Can't spell it, done trying to figure it out) Are appreciated.

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    Default Re: Where to go from here... hmm...

    Quote Originally Posted by Roadwarrior View Post
    Any critique, ideas and critosysms(Can't spell it, done trying to figure it out) Are appreciated.
    It's spelled criticisms my confused friend


    Quote Originally Posted by Roadwarrior View Post
    Should I... Wait for the next party, build rapport, get the number then ask for the date a few days after?
    My concern with that is, I'm on fire right now and I gotta keep the coals burnin' ya know?
    You answered your own questions. You have the confidence and you have the game, so you know you can do it. However, it always helps to have some patience, so don't rush with your arms flailing headlong into the fray. Besides, if the interaction between you two didn't end on a low, then she will still be excited to see you at the next party.

    Other than that, just be careful with your alcohol consumption. If you don't want to black out, and you have a rough idea of what you are doing that night, plan accordingly. If you plan on gaming people, I would avoid getting too deep in the party at all. If you are worried about being judged for not drinking, here's a trick I learned to stay sober at the parties:

    Fill a red solo cup with water or orange Gatorade. Most of the drunk idiots there are going to automatically think you're slamming the brewskies with them. I should know, I've been doing it for years and no one knows I do it.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Where to go from here... hmm...

    Beer is the enemy of success with women. I've said it a trillion times. I went to school for music so I was CRAZY with anything you can think of. Never worked (unless your into stupid drunk girls, but that's USUALLY considered rape...).

    With my friend I have high enough status with the guys (for being good with women and always getting more around) and women (they see the hot girls I'm with) that I can actually use sobriety as a positive. I'm not drinking cause ill have fun ANYWAY and don't want to. Why water? Cause I'm thirsty. Only girls I don't know would ask ,and if your frame is tight it makes you look powerful. I think the RSA guys (Tyler) go more into this. Don't give into peer pressure and your solid. And sober, wittier, and more fun. Don't just say it, try it, have FUN. MORE FUN THAN ANYONE ELSE. That's how you win life.

    Then go out with dudes on dudes only night and get shmammered without worrying.
    --theBOB--


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