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Thread: Needing help opening with girls...

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    Exclamation Needing help opening with girls...

    I am new to all this and was wondering if anyone had tips on how to open? Or just some general openers I could use. I am fine once I get speaking to girls, once the conversation flows, but my problem is that I feel like I get nervous easy - in the sense that I feel like the situation is awkward even if there is a couple seconds of silence, and by beginning to feel awkward actually makes it awkward.

    If i had some openers that could lead onto some chat then that would be perfect. I am quite naturally cheeky and flirtatious once I get the conversation going - it is just getting to that point and having the confidence to walk up and start chatting.

    Any and all comments welcome.

    Thanks in advance!

    Hunter

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    Default Re: Needing help opening with girls...

    hey buddy, you have some things good on your side, naturally flirty and kinda a smartass, perfect! As for openers, im not to into the planned sequence of approaching so cant help you there, but I know there are tons of threads on that sort of thing. One thing I will tell you though, sometimes when im about to approach a girl, and I begin to feel nervous and I start to think oh no what if this happens or she says this or I freeze or blah blah blah, I stop myself right there. Take a deep breath, and smile. Idk if this works with anyone else but a good deep smile gets me relaxed and thinking, hey, everythings okay. Start thinking, Im the champ and this is going to be great! then do your thing. Works for me, try it out

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    Default Re: Needing help opening with girls...

    Openers are the most unnatural way to approach. Exactly because they're not raw, they require fabrication. So if the opening is a fabrication your conversation will also require more thought.

    What you need is to lose your nervousness. Don't force anything, only use the opportunities you're given. If she wants you, she'll drop you a signal.

    example:

    Say a random girl smiles at you in the middle of the street. Why would you need to memorize an opener? - "Hey, I have to stop you. You really have a beautiful smile."

    Call it how you see it and feel it. Get the same raw response.
    Veni, vidi, vici.

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    Default Re: Needing help opening with girls...

    when you talkk to her, slow down. focus on the moment, dont worry about what you will say in a few minutes, just enjoy the conversation. you should probably get some experience opening directly and honestly admiting something about her caught your attention and use that honesty to lead to a fun conversation. after you do that a few times you get used to it and even addicted to it.

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    Default Re: Needing help opening with girls...

    Oh you guys... who gives a shit about awkward moments? It's part of life. Awkward moments during a conversation, awkward moments during sex, awkward moments after sex, awkward moments during work... It just happens (or might happen). Learn how to deal with it and don't be afraid of feeling awkward. It's an emotion like any other.

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