Re: dont know where to put this thread sorry
No I do not think it is a good idea. You shouldn't have to make a deal with a woman like it's a business transaction just to get something like a date. In fact, you may want to do what I do.
I'll tell her that it's NOT a date and that she has to pay for her own ticket so she doesn't think I'll owe her anything afterwards. She will usually wonder why and sometimes she'll even push for me to acknowledge that is in, in fact, a date. And of course I refuse
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."