I've read a few PUA ebooks and a good number of them convey the point that women are monogamous creatures assuming that she is in a healthy loving relationship. However, I've recently spoken to a friend of mine who's been with her bf for 3.5 years and claims that she's in a very loving state with him, yet chooses to flirt with other men. In fact, she told me that at one point she felt attachment to one of the guys she was flirting with (where Kino was involved).
So how could this happen? The guy in this case isn't doing a bad job, why is the girl still seeking?
Also, I am interested to find out how I can skillfully ask a girl if she's the type that is into serious/heavy dating or if she just wants to casually date. How can I do this?
Thanks in advance.