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    Default ask out a 'language study partner'

    Hey, guys.

    I was just wondering if you had any specific advice for the following situation. I'm brazilian and there's this german girl which is an exchange student at my university. She was asking for people to teach her portugues in exchange for german classes, which I am really interested in and have been looking for a partner anyways. She's super hot though, and since primarily her interest in meeting me is for the classes, I thought a regular escalation may not be the best idea, since it would probably be awkward for her to keep this study group (we will meet once a week for like 3 hours), after I made a move. So I figured it was best to do all the regular stuff but don't actually go for the kiss during any of 'meetings' and just ask her out instead, therefore separating the study from the pick-up part. What do you guys think? If this is the best plan, how do you propose I do it? Should I just let it go if I don't wanna risk losing my german teacher? (I'm willing to risk it to a degree, just don't want to do it if it's like 80% that she's not going to want to learn from me and teach me anymore. If she just rejects me and still wants to, I am tooootally cool with that.). Or should I just approach her and go for it anyway?

    I'd just like some input. Thanks a lot, guys!

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    Default Re: ask out a 'language study partner'

    On my phone so bullet points :
    -she has to hang out with you for 3 hours, you BETTER game her
    -if you attract her, doesn't matter if she teaches you or not, she'll want to hang out
    -if you know how to handle rejection she won't feel awkward teaching you afterwards
    -go for it and observe. Don't feel like you need to rush. If it's going that bad, then you don't have to ask her out
    -Kino her and make sex related jokes if possible
    -She is not in a position of power, she needs you as much of not more than you need her

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    Default Re: ask out a 'language study partner'

    Thanks a lot, man. That was really helpful!

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    Default Re: ask out a 'language study partner'

    I am going to add a little bit to what lilsting said about Kino.

    You have the PERFECT opportunity to Kino. When you do the language exchange start with the basic stuff like:

    - How do you say hello?
    - How do you say good bye?
    - How do you say my name is?
    - How do you say I don't speak Portuguese/German do you speak English? ( comes in handy when you travel )

    After a bunch of the basic stuff then start to Kino by:

    - How do you say hair in German/Portugues? (touch her hair )
    - How do you say nose /eyes/mouth?
    - How do you say hands? (touch her hand)

    Touch her hand and then ask her how she gets her hands so soft. What lotion she uses. Then ask her how you say hand lotion or shampoo in German. Then ask her how you say arm? Touch her arm and tell her that her arm is softer than her hands.

    Keep escalating if she is allowing you to touch her.If she pulls back a bit then start to build more comfort with other questions /statements. Then re-engage with kino.

    Remember don't just ask question after question. Question /statement/question/statement.

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    Default Re: ask out a 'language study partner'

    Those were great advice. I really appreciate it!


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