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    I would like some advice on how often to contact a girl I'm seeing. We have already had sex and she says she is seeing me exclusively but I dint want her or me to get bored. So far we have been talking everyday for three weeks. Sometimes I make first contact sometimes she does. I wonder if maybe I should show a lip disinterest to spice it up. Any ideas ? Thank you

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    Default Re: how often to contact

    My only advice from all my personal. Experience with all my girlfriends would be to be spontaneous. If you do that, you can contact her as much as you please and she won't get bored. Don't be predictable. ( lol my advice probably didn't help at all but that helps with the boredom part)
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    Default Re: how often to contact

    I agree with Marvilo.

    Just be spontaneous, do some crazy stuff. From taking her to a restaurant to having sex in a public place. Make sure she doesn't know what's up next, this will keep her interested.

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    Default Re: how often to contact

    Spontaneity is a big one. Another thing is to keep the conversations fresh. From knowing each other for a long time, the conversations may get and seem stale. As long as you keep that same spark that was at the beginning going, you shouldn't have any problems whatsoever. The best way to do this is to still try and pick her up with flirtatious moves and so on as if she wasn't yours yet.

    Your disinterest bit is a good idea. So far, she is used to hearing from you every single day. Take a break for about a week and don't initiate any of the conversations. Try to get her to chase after you for a bit. If she doesn't hear from you for a day or two, then you can initiate the conversation. Keep the power of the interaction balanced between you two. Sometimes she will do something, and then the other times you will do something.
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