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Thread: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

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    Default Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    Hey, this is my first post/thread, so bare with me...

    I am trying to get into the game, I know the theory of mystery method down pretty well, but one sticking point to me going out there and spitting game is the fact that I am not interested in any of the girls I meet. I start talking to them and I just end up not giving a F about them. Of course I think they are hot and all, but I cannot seem to connect with lets say 95% of the lame everyday girls out there. I am eccentric and of higher intellect, so connections are scarce. I can be a good liar and fake it, but that demands effort and energy, and since I usually don't give an F, it doesn't happen often or I don't persist with a set unless there is something special.

    I know exactly what I want in a girl, and I can quickly cold read the girl to see if she fits the bill or not, and usually, she does not. In this case, do all of you fake a connection to the girl or do u all find a way to connect and ''want her'' (not just sexually)in a genuine way?

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    Default Re: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    I've been doing this for a long time and for you to say that 95% of the women you talk to are lame I think is bs. Sorry to say.

    It's one thing if a guy doesn't have confidence to approach women. It's another to use the excuse that one is too picky in order to not escalate with a woman. It's easy to hide behind that pickiness if you find something "wrong" with the women you talk to. Do not make the excuse in order to avoid being sexual towards women. I have a brother who is extremely picky with women. None of them interest him or so he says. Yet he's a 23 year old virgin who never had a gf before. Don't be like my bro.

    Women can be very interesting to talk with if you get rid of some of your unrealistic expectations. There's always something you're not going to like. But that doesn't mean you should not give it a shot at all. I date women all the time that I just "sort of" like. It just means I won't make them my gf and I can still have fun. And quite often they will, in fact, teach you something. Even if it's one thing. It's not about faking it. It's about adapting and realizing that people ARE in fact interesting if you just watch and listen.
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    Default Re: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I've been doing this for a long time and for you to say that 95% of the women you talk to are lame I think is bs. Sorry to say.

    It's one thing if a guy doesn't have confidence to approach women. It's another to use the excuse that one is too picky in order to not escalate with a woman. It's easy to hide behind that pickiness if you find something "wrong" with the women you talk to. Do not make the excuse in order to avoid being sexual towards women. I have a brother who is extremely picky with women. None of them interest him or so he says. Yet he's a 23 year old virgin who never had a gf before. Don't be like my bro.

    Women can be very interesting to talk with if you get rid of some of your unrealistic expectations. There's always something you're not going to like. But that doesn't mean you should not give it a shot at all. I date women all the time that I just "sort of" like. It just means I won't make them my gf and I can still have fun. And quite often they will, in fact, teach you something. Even if it's one thing. It's not about faking it. It's about adapting and realizing that people ARE in fact interesting if you just watch and listen.
    Very well spoken my friend. GIVE OR TAKE 30 CHARACTERS!

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    Default Re: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    Yeah I definitely agree with the "unreasonable expectations" parts. I can't expect every woman I talk to to be wife material. It's all about having a positive outlook and an open mind I suppose, which seem to be my biggest obstacle at this point. Part of this unwillingness or incapacity to connect could be attributed to culture shock, but I guess I can find at least one thing to connect about even if we don't like the same music, sports, activities, etc. Positive and open minded and when in doubt, fake it till u make it...

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    Default Re: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    You can literally talk about how tough it is to find people to connect with and you can connect that way hahaha.
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    Default Re: Most girls I meet simply don't interest me

    And that is why Batman is the Zen Master of pickup on this forum.

    If you're trying to find your soul mate in this world, it isn't going to happen. As 50 Cent says in The 50th Law, a book that anyone in the game should read, you have to constantly keep your head in reality. There is no such thing as the perfect girl, as there is also no such thing as the perfect guy. There are no perfect people. Everyone has their flaws or things that turn them off from other people in the world.

    Here is what I do with women: I have chosen which traits I want to see in a woman, and which traits I really couldn't care less about. I couldn't care less on her political background and views, but I DO care on her sense of humor. If she can't at least giggle at dirty humor, like you would see in Role Models or The Hangover, then I'm not going for that.

    It's all a matter of taking a day to sit down, really think about what you want, and choosing which of those things are the most important. That is how you figure out what you are looking for, and that is how you eliminate this bs about having no women who are within your interest.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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