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    Instinct Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimbo View Post
    What about like Style and Mystery Instinct? They seem to fark close constantly, except for Style now. He has gotten out of the game. So what your saying is, all those openers and canned material, none of that stuff really works when you wanna close girls? If that is the case Ive been hella lied to!!
    Here's the real question - Are they happy? I dunno if you read the book - but a big theme was the misery of a canned life style.

    Do you really want to buy a book and learn how to be someone else other than yourself?

    "Classic Pick-Up" is all about the close, passing enough steps to get to the point to get someone to do what you want.

    "Real Pick-up" isn't about taking, its about giving, its about the open, its about listening to what someone wants and finding a way that you honestly fulfill that, when you are yourself, and you just find out which part of yourself gives that girl what she wants and express it - and thats why she wants to go home with you - for you, not for some trick or line that some other guy came up with; That will make you so much happier, do you agree?

    Learn how to listen better, learn how to shut up, learn how to make yourself into the person that YOU want you to be, and to show people which side of you is the side that they will love the most - and as you enjoy the sides that fit perfectly, you are both learning how to accept, understand, and appreciate the sides that don't - they call this growth; real genuine growth within both of you - nothing is more intimate; do this and you will have better friendships, a better career, and better relationships with women.

    Do style and mystery get girls home - probably, but lets get to what you really want, someone to look at you and say "I would really like to be open with that guy, to let him have the most vulnerable parts of myself because that will make me feel good"; and its for the real genuine you; isn't that really what you want out of your experience with women, and friends, and family?

    In my world it's not "a game", shes not "a toy" and Im not "a player", its a beautiful, wonderful, fulfilling, risky, sometimes even scary dance where me and another person grow as individuals, and as a relationship, together. It's meaningful and genuine, it feels incredibly fast while it's going incredibly slow. It's a funny kind of serious that makes you want to laugh in your car as you drive home thinking about her special quirks, or morn in you're bed as you connect with her most heart breaking tragedies.

    She is real, and I am real - and will do nothing to create a manufactured one size fits all part of myself to Take Away from that.

    You can work to be as canned as you want to be - just make sure that you are also working to be as happy as you want to...
    Last edited by Instinct; 01-15-2011 at 10:34 PM.

  2. #12
    Grimbo Guest

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    The myself thing hasnt worked or done jack shit for me (pardon the language here) in my life so far. I was the guy Style described as himself before he went through his transformation. And it rubs off on me with guys to, In general I dont know how to work these social situation : /. So I need to learn how to deal with the guys who screw around, and get with the girls as well. Thats my issue, and Im exhausting every resource I find to fix these problems

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    Instinct Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimbo View Post
    The myself thing hasnt worked or done jack sh1t for me (pardon the language here) in my life so far. I was the guy Style described as himself before he went through his transformation. And it rubs off on me with guys to, In general I dont know how to work these social situation : /. So I need to learn how to deal with the guys who screw around, and get with the girls as well. Thats my issue, and Im exhausting every resource I find to fix these problems
    I know, trust me I know - I was the same way. Trust me - you aren't wrong, but I can help you get really happy if you trust me.



    I started pick-up with mystery method and so many times I thought - I'll just be myself and not give a sh1t and it wouldn't work, I didn't really know how to get to the core, I thought I did, I thought I was, but once I got there I realized that I was doing it all wrong. I was acting like the person that I "thought" I was supposed to be.

    If you want some help I will help you, but this is not a quick fix.

    Step 1) Join a team sport.

    Step 2) Start taking excellent care of your body, diet and exercise.

    Step 3) Keep yourself, your house, and your body clean.

    Step 4) Get clothes that you absolutely love, the kind you would wear if you were the hottest guy in town.

    Step 5) Read a book a week, any book that interests you.

    Step 6) Be completely honest. Do your best to find the positive out of every situation, but be 100% honest with everyone around you - this is where I was farking up the worst, I was trying to be who I thought I was supposed to be
    instead of just being. This step is really scary.

    Step 7) Be loyal to those who care, and let them know it.

    Step 8) Learn how to go into life not hopping for the best, but expecting the best. There is a difference

    Step 9) Dont be afraid to express what makes you unique. Im a good writer - thats my talent, I txt message poetry to friends all the time. I care so much about other people - when I see someone in pain I tend to feel it with them, when I see someone in joy - I can't help but smile. This is what is unique about me and was the biggest factor to my success, and that didnt really show itself until I became completely honest with myself and those around me. Let your special talent shine.



    Get as much Tony Robbins material as you can and listen to all of it.

    Build an incredible match.com profile, and spend the first 10 dates with the objective of making a really close female friend, not a lover. This will help a lot, and I did this accidently.


    There is an instinct method - I just don't want you doing it until you are completely out of your element and growing.

    I honestly wrote it out and then deleted it from this post.

    This will not work overnight, but you can start improving and loving yourself more today. This is exactly how I got to where I was, and dammit it was hard because men and women thought I was awkward, because I was - because I am very unique and I was trying first to be just normal, and then to be overly outrageous.

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    Ok, thats a will do. I have done some of those steps on there already. Is there a way I can add you as a friend, so i can keep in touch with you on this?

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    So Instinct, the advice for the gym opener is to be yourself?
    Remember my name lady, you'll be screaming it later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Instinct View Post
    I'm no expert, so this is just the thoughts off the top of my head.

    ...you just got back from surfing and your totally sore, can she spot you? Your in a hurry to meet your friend and
    need to get this done.

    After wards say "That was really good...for a newbie".

    You stay seated, let her stand.

    Now you explain that your best friend normally comes and spots you but he's recording
    thunderstorms for a mediation cd in the rain forest.

    Oh, she likes the sounds of thunderstorms and finds it relaxing, I always feel it balances my chi, do you believe in energy? I feel a strange energy coming from you, what is that?

    Listen, you are a terrible person, you are totally pulling me away from my workout, and I've got to meet my friend for coffee in 10 minutes, do you know that shop down the corner, yea its awesome you should check it out one day.

    Hold on, spot me. "Oh your getting better at this, but don't get too cocky".

    Look, I'm gonna go shower, I gotta go get coffee, with my bud.

    The problem with picking up at a gym is, its hard to insta-date. Because women dont want to go out full of sweat. IF you can figure that part out, please tell me bro!


    im agraid i agree with this, the orgional post seams far too much like a beta males attempt to get a number and i'll add for everyones benifit salesman 101

    never say sorry it gives the impression your in the wrong and they should think less of you. certenly dont say sorry several times and dont qualify yourself your making it seam like you need to give a reason simply to talk to her when it should be the other way round.
    if it works for you hey go for it but these are just things iv read and done, its NLP buddy
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    My friend kind of needed a thing like it, could be indeed useful

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    This sounds like a really good opener. Your right about that time restriction too, hang around any longer you'd loose value and end up coming across like every other meat head. Also there's nothing more annoying than the guy interrupting you in the middle of your set.
    I'm going to Field Test this opener in the near future.
    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Do you like this direct Gym Opener

    I agree with the gym advice instinct gives, it seems feel like a more natural way of interacting in while working out, specially using the environmental conversation of workouts and fitness.
    My only problem is that I'm used to wearing headphones which makes it kinda hard to interact. To fix this problem, lately I only wear one side, works wonders.

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    Default Re: Do you like this direct Gym Opener

    it was the best post iv read yet and it has helped me alot. thanks guys!


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