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    Asian_Watts is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl interested or just loves attention

    This girl, solid 8/10 I've had history with before, years ago when I didn't think of consequences and I messed her about. Since then (3 years ago) we've seen other people and she's messed a guy about in that time too and been in a relationship.
    Recently I contacted her again, I use to see her around college anyway, and said we should go out sometime, she agreed and said actually I'm in town already tomorrow and have no one to meet up with. At the time I thought great! She wants to see me that soon. The date was pretty awesome but kept getting hot and cold vibes, only got small Kino gestures, barely even a hug without it feeling uncomfortable.

    Since then we' be texted a lot but i keep getting hot and cold vibes e.g
    Me: hey wanna do something next week, either Monday or Wednesday?
    Her: not really sure to be honest, ill have to get back to you.

    Blowing me off right? Later ill get:
    Her: saw a film earlier that I thought we could definitely watch together! Make sure you save them Pringles for next time :P

    What on earth is going on?!?! There's many more cases of her being hot and cold too!

    The conversation died at about 7Pm tonight and at 11 she texts me word for word:
    I see how it is, just ditch me ,
    Nighty night Nathan xx

    She never usually puts kisses either? I temporarily have the ball in my court, what now?!

    Very confused, any opinions?

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    Default Re: Girl interested or just loves attention

    She likes you should aim for the kiss close.escalate!!

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    Asian_Watts is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl interested or just loves attention

    I would but the girl is reluctant for Day 3. How should I word it and what should it be? I don't want to do cinema as everyone knows its a hard game.

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    Default Re: Girl interested or just loves attention

    a simple pure statement should do i assume you know how to get then engaged if you have been running game you should have some interest somewhat at least.
    this one could do.
    you wnt believe this a woman put this across to me via text she said wil get back at me..really hard..

    then engage later and start building attraction with her, as soon as she is laughing at your remarks, seems to contribute more, talks lengthier,asking you questions relative to getting more information about you etc,you may go for the meetup.

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    Default Re: Girl interested or just loves attention

    You're overthinking it Nath. Be cool and relax about. Girls are notorious for this...the love to have guys latch onto them like little puppies.

    Just go for it, rather than not to lose out opportunity.

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    Default Re: Girl interested or just loves attention

    Quote Originally Posted by Asian_Watts View Post
    This girl, solid 8/10 I've had history with before, years ago when I didn't think of consequences and I messed her about. Since then (3 years ago) we've seen other people and she's messed a guy about in that time too and been in a relationship.
    Recently I contacted her again, I use to see her around college anyway, and said we should go out sometime, she agreed and said actually I'm in town already tomorrow and have no one to meet up with. At the time I thought great! She wants to see me that soon. The date was pretty awesome but kept getting hot and cold vibes, only got small Kino gestures, barely even a hug without it feeling uncomfortable.

    Since then we' be texted a lot but i keep getting hot and cold vibes e.g
    Me: hey wanna do something next week, either Monday or Wednesday?
    Her: not really sure to be honest, ill have to get back to you.

    Blowing me off right? Later ill get:
    Her: saw a film earlier that I thought we could definitely watch together! Make sure you save them Pringles for next time :P

    What on earth is going on?!?! There's many more cases of her being hot and cold too!

    The conversation died at about 7Pm tonight and at 11 she texts me word for word:
    I see how it is, just ditch me ,
    Nighty night Nathan xx

    She never usually puts kisses either? I temporarily have the ball in my court, what now?!

    Very confused, any opinions?

    LOL you're confused that's she is hot & cold? Are you not playing the same game with her yourself? For instance...

    Quote Originally Posted by Asian_Watts View Post
    Me: hey wanna do something next week, either Monday or Wednesday?
    No definite plan, no venue, not even set on a day pretty lukewarm/ hot & cold. Get serious man get with it. Be like

    "Hey woman, food, this place 2 hours you down?" or a little more romantic

    "Hey want to join me for Dinner Theatre, Dinner & a Movie, Funplex, County Fare, Holiday Festival, etc?"

    You are shooting for validation sounds like you don't even know what you want to do or where to go just that you are sure you want something with her. This is why I am writing up Project Iceshield and why it got started. By the way I got my last GF by using the second (more) romantic option I just gave you. Haven't tested the first option but trust me I will. Not just for you but also for me.


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