Re: In comfort, then freaks out!
Ahaha! Atta boy! Now you have the conversation in your control, which is the key to any interaction. When you have her on the defensive like you do now, it only gives you more and more power the more it rolls on. You can see that you are in a very powerful position due to the comments she gave you and how hard she is trying.
Although you may be on a high right now, you need to get your head out of the clouds. Yea, things are looking great for you, but in a state like that right now you could easily screw everything up with a poorly thought decision. You need to constantly keep your head in reality, and you can't get comfortable until you have succeeded in what you want to do. I can't tell you how many times I had screwed it up because I got too confident and too happy, and I pulled a bad move to make it all blow up in my face. This is a crucial time that you can't afford to screw up because you started thinking with your heart or little head instead of your big head.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X