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    Default Hugging at the end on an interaction

    I often -actually most of the times- hug girls at the end of the very first conversation.

    It's not something I'm doing as a "PUA move" but more like a natural thing for me: both when I see and when I'm saying goodbye to my close friends I hug them most of the times.

    However sometimes women are not expecting it and for some of them I can feel it's a bit "forced" and only go for it because I've already spread my arms and taken a step forward.

    Do you think it could come across as "too much" and make me look as a bit of a weirdo (people don't hug strangers and acquaintances in the street) ?

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    Default Re: Hugging at the end on an interaction

    It depends on the culture, if you're living in a touchy culture then it's no problem. If you're doing it in a less touchy culture then it could be a bit strange for some people.

    On the other hand, if you're doing it with confidence then most people will hug you back. Some peope won't except it, this reaction doesn't mean they don't want to hug you. I would keep hugging people, it's good for Kino and it's your natural style.

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    Default Re: Hugging at the end on an interaction

    Kino of any sorts is always recommended. Hugs are one of the best things you can do, and for you to just naturally do it is good. Some girls may react oddly because they are not expecting it, but the more they get to know you, the more they will warm up and return the favor to you.

    I wouldn't really worry about cultural differences. Brazilians are very touchy and personal, while Americans aren't as much, but either way physical interaction is important. It doesn't matter which culture it is, it just matters that it's happening. I do agree though with Dave that confidence is key. If you aren't confident, people can smell that, and they won't react positively back.
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